Tuesday, January 19, 2016

A chance meeting

So over the holidays we were invited to a "hotel party" on the Dec 26th. The Saturday night the day after Christmas. It was being organized by a guy on the swinger website we usually use. I really wanted to go. I had chatted with him a few times and he seemed really cool. The other couples that were going to show up looked hot. But Maria got sick. We had to cancel.

But no worries. Jay was going to organize another party the following weekend. Jan. 2nd. A New Years Eve after party. Same thing. 4 or 5 couples in a hotel room. We were looking forward to going and finally checking out Jay's parties. The day of the party he texted us. His lady partner had gotten sick. He had decided to cancel the party. One of the things about "the lifestyle" is that you have to get used to disappointment. It's all part of it. I was bummed but I thought Jay was real. There would be another party sometime. We texted and said we would keep in touch and he would make sure that we knew when the next party would be.

Cut to last weekend. I was still a little bummed that things hadn't quite gone as planned over the holidays. Maria's date night out by herself while I stayed at home had been amazing! But I had really wanted to have some sort of group sex fun with her as well. I saw a hot date post on the swinger website from a guy I knew who was hosting a GB party. I had been to a few of Dipak's parties in the past. Maria was on her period. I asked her if she would mind if I went to the GB on Sat night. She said no problem. I texted Dipak, he sent me some pix, she looked like a nice cute mature lady, and I was in. It all seemed so easy.

I had asked Dipak how many guys were going to be there and he said 4-5. Sure enough when I got to the hotel room there were only two other guys. He asked me to show up at 7. I got there a little late. Around 7:15. But when he opened the door I could hear the sounds of a lady getting fucked. It wasn't a porno. The party had already begun!

I took put down my stuff and said hello to Dipak and figured, "what the hell! I might as well get undressed!" I took off my clothes and got on the bed. The lady was a cutie! Definitely a more mature lady. Not a perfect body but a very nice one. She had fantastic legs and had on some nice thigh high stockings. She had short blond hair and a very pretty face.

We all sort of looked at each other and one of the guys turned to me and said, "Tom? Is that you? From Tom and Maria on SLS?" I said yes and he said, "I'm Jay!" I recognized him instantly from his pix! A total small world experience. Or more to the point it shows just how small the swinging world is in a city like Chicago. You never know who you're going to bump into.

As it turned out it was a fantastic night! One of the funnier moments happened when, about 30 minutes into it I had to say to the lady, "Excuse me. This is slightly awkward. But it hits me that I've already fucked your pussy and your ass but I have no idea what your name is?!" We all laughed! She said her name was Riva. She had a sexy Russian sounding accent. She was a lot of fun to play with! She had wanted to try DP and DVP. We did both with her and it turned out that Jay and I worked very well together. There was a long time when Riva was riding me and I was in her pussy while the other guys fucked her ass. It was totally fucking hot. A very nice night! and a total chance meeting with Jay. When I got home and told Maria all about it she was happy that I had gotten to meet him and talk to him. Now she is even more interested in going to one of his parties.

In the meantime my schedule is a little crazy. My life isn't usually like this. We have a potential date to go out and meet a nice couple this weekend. Next weekend I have a date set up with a fave lady friend of mine. The weekend after that is the next MFA GB party. Gotta go to that. Maria is still deciding if she wants to go. Then two weeks after that is my birthday weekend and I want to set up a party or do something. Hopefully Jay will have a party that weekend. He's thinking about it. I got an invite to a Bukkake party the weekend after MFA. If I went to that I would be doing some sort of swinging thing for six weekends in a row. Usually I get out about once a month or so. I don't plan these sorts of things. They just sort of seem to happen to me. Sometimes I pinch myself and wonder how this could be happening!


Friday, January 1, 2016

Rug burn

So we were sitting around this afternoon watching one of the football games. Maria was wearing one of her low cut tops. She loves to tease me. She knows that after all these years the sight of her beautiful breasts still drives me crazy!

She had been teasing me all day as well by saying things like, "I'm still so sore from the other night. Davis and Justin both wore me out!"

Then at one point she came over and leaned over in front of me so I could see right down her top. She asked me to look up at her forehead. She said, "Does my forehead look sort of red and scratched right here?" She pointed above her right eyebrow and I noticed. Yes, it was a little red and sore looking so I told her so.

Maria said, "the guys REALLY liked it when they would fuck me from behind and my head would be down and my ass would be in the air. They both told me how amazing my ass looked that way. So I spent a lot of time with my head down and my ass in the air getting fucked hard from behind. They gave me a little bit of a rug burn on my forehead! Can you kiss it and make it better?"

I gave her a kiss and she gave me a funny smile and sat back down. I think she could tell that my cock had gotten a little hard from her telling me that. Fuck. I love my life!

My first year of swinging...

It seems like a popular genre of nonfiction are these books that all have the same theme, "my first year in the lifestyle/swinging".

A man (usually), sometimes a woman or couple, tell their story about deciding to become a swinger and all of the knowledge they've learned in that year. They are usually voyages of self discovery where they go on a sexual journey. 3sums and 4sums and non monogamy and feelings and jealousy and lots of deep thoughts. Usually by the end of the year they've gone through their journey and "figured it all out".

I would like to call BS on this.

I think back on where we were after we had been doing this for one year vs. now. We've grown so much, learned so much, changed so much. One year just isn't a long enough time to figure all of this stuff out. I'm not sure what that even means?! Like everything in life I'm constantly growing and learning and changing from my experiences.

I've never read one of those books and I don't think I ever will. I just can't imagine I would learn anything from them. It might be hot to read some of the stories but I can find free porn stories on the internet any time!

So, "My First Year in Swinging". Bah!


Thursday, December 31, 2015

Happy New Years!

Maria and I are celebrating New Years in our own special way. ;-)

Maria actually doesn't like to go out on New Years Eve because of the drunk drivers. So we're celebrating on the 30th. Maria has a "date" lined up with three guys we've met before for a small intimate GB/party. We're playing our cuckold/hot wife games and I'll be at home. She wants me to drop her off and then drive home. Hopefully she'll call me so I can listen on the phone. I'm already going bat shit crazy thinking about her getting fucked by these guys for hours! We leave in about two hours. Maria is taking a nap right now...

I'm also following our "rules" for when she goes out on dates by herself and leaves me at home. I haven't fucked her for a couple of days now. Yesterday I was allowed to play with myself but I wasn't allowed to cum. Today I'm not allowed to touch my cock to play with myself at all until she comes home from her date. Even when she's playing I'm not allowed to play with myself. The worst (and best part) is when she calls me which she usually does. When I can hear her cumming my cock gets rock hard and I want to touch it and play with it so badly. It drives me crazy! But I'm usually really good and don't touch myself until she gets home.

I also have a cock harness ready to put around my cock. I usually wear it when she's out on a date. It's a nice leather one we got from Mr S Leather out in SF. It has a nice leather wrap to put around my cock and a strap to go around my balls. Maria also told me that she would be picking out a pair of her panties to change into later. I often wear a pair of her panties when she plays. She said once, "If I'm not wearing them then maybe you should wear them?"

So we lined up three guys tonight. Our old friend Justin will be one of the guys and offered to host at his place. He has a nice big cock that is a little longer than mine and a little thicker. Maria loves it when he fucks her. Then we have Davis. He is a younger guy and can go all night long. He has a lot of energy. His cock is about the same size as mine but when he fucks Maria he knows how to hit her G spot. He is one of the few guys who can make her squirt from cumming. Then the last guy is Sami. He has a super thick cock. As thick as a coke can. Maria loves how he stretches her out. She's met all of these guys before and fucked them so she's looking forward to seeing all of them again.

I just got home after dropping her off. I am bouncing off the walls wondering what's going on!

We drove there and talked a bit but I could tell Maria was nervous so we pretty much just listened to music and kept our thoughts to ourselves. She had dressed in a hot new body stocking she bought recently and put some black tights and a top over it so she looked "normal" when we left.

I pulled up in Justin's driveway. I gave her a kiss and told her that I knew she was going to have a lot of fun tonight! She got out of the car and went and knocked on Justin's door. He opened it right away and let her in. I could see their silhouettes in the doorway as he closed the door. I could feel a few butterflies in my tummy. I was already wondering what was going on...

I drove down the block and pulled to the side. I pulled out my cock harness and unzipped my pants and put it on. It was dark so I knew nobody could see. I pulled out and started to drive home. I turned on the radio. All the while wondering what was already happening. It took about 5 minutes to get a text. I couldn't read it because I was driving but it looked like a picture. Now I was really wondering what was going on. Did they already start?

Then about five minutes later I got my answer. The phone rang and I answered it. I love Bluetooth cell phone connections in cars these days! I could hear Maria's moaning and groaning filling the car instantly. I put the phone on mute and drove along listening to her cum over and over again. It sounded like she was getting fucked while a cock was in her mouth. I know that sound. ;-)

I listened to her cumming non stop it seemed for about 15 minutes. Then the call ended. Damnit! Justin was going to be a good Dom and tease me tonight. I drove home the rest of the way while music played wondering what was going on. I loved the feeling of being a little helpless. A little jealous. But most of all really turned on wondering what Maria was doing just then?

I finally got home and parked the car. I looked and I already had 8 text messages. I opened up Messages and most of them were pix. Maria was already sucking cock and getting fucked. I also had a message from Justin saying that he hadn't heard from Sami yet.

I texted Sami and asked him if he was going to be able to make it. In the meantime I kept on getting more pix from Justin. They were hot. Maria was clearly having a great time. Then some pictures came through that shocked me. There was a cock in her ass! I didn't even ask her beforehand if she was going to do anal because I assumed she wouldn't. I was stunned. My cock was also rock hard in my harness and I wasn't allowed to play with myself.

I texted back to Justin. "Anal? Wow!"

I also wrote "Can I please listen?"

He wrote back "Yup"

I assumed that was for the first question.

I wrote back. "Hope you can DP her"

He wrote back. "That's what we're working up to"

I wrote back desperately "Omg. Please call me so I can hear that."

He wrote back. "When we get there"

I decided to go to the bedroom and lay down on the bed. I thought I could listen better that way. I also decided that I might as well go ahead and put in the butt plug I sometimes use when Maria plays. Since she was getting fucked in the ass I might as well have something in my ass as well. Right? lol

Then I waited. and waited. it seemed like forever. But 10 minutes later my phone rang. It was Justin's number. I picked it up and put it on mute. I could hear Maria getting fucked and cumming hard. At one point Justin picked up the phone and said, "where is that cock fucking you now?" I could hear the phone move and Maria clearly replied, "In my ass. His cock is in my ass and oh my god it feels so good!"

Then the phone got put down from what I could tell and I got to listen again. It was amazing. I could tell that Maria was in one of her zones where she was cumming non stop. I still couldn't believe she was doing anal. From the pix it looked like it was Davis who was fucking her in the ass. I'm sure she was loving it! I listened for about 10 minutes and then I hear some shuffling. I swear I hear someone say, "He got cut off." and then the phone disconnected.

I said to myself, "Hey, I didn't cut myself off?!"

Usually when Maria plays one of our "rules" is that she calls me. I don't call her. I don't disturb her fun. She decides if I get to listen or not.

But I decided to call back. First I called Maria's phone. No answer. Then I called Justin's phone. He picked up and said that they were going to take a break. I swear I could hear Maria in the background say, "really?"

I had also gotten a text back from Sami at this point. He said that he wouldn't be able to make it. He gave one of the most creative excuses I've heard in a long long time. It was so creative that I'm not sure if it was real or not! If it was real I'm sorry to hear the news. I also figured that it seemed like Maria was in very good hands with Justin and Davis. No worries. I let them know that Sami wouldn't be able to make it.

It was now around 10 O Clock. Then another wait. Finally I got some pix of the two of them tying up Maria's breast shibari style. I know she loves that and it drives her crazy. Justin sent a few more pix of Davis fucking Maria with her breasts tied up. She looked amazing. Then I heard nothing. After the phone call incident I didn't want to bother them. So I waited. I took the time to take a look at the pix that they had sent me and downloaded them all. I made a folder on my computer to put all the pix and put them all there. It was already 25 pix and two videos! I was going crazy wondering what was going on! In a very good way.

At around 10:30 I got another pic of Davis fucking Maria. I didn't want to be pushy but I wrote back and asked if I could listen. Justin wrote back and said, "Go sit in a corner. We'll call you when ready" I wrote back and said "yes sir". I wanted to keep it simple and direct. Then I waited some more. and more. I was loving the anticipation and wondering what Maria was doing? This is why I love doing this. Thinking about her every second. My mind bouncing off the walls wondering what she's doing at any moment. Is she getting fucked in the ass again? Riding one of the guys? Getting fucked from behind? Just chilling and talking and resting for a bit? I loved wondering what was going on...

Finally at around 11 my phone rang again. It was Justin calling. I answered and immediately put it on mute. I could hear Maria cumming hard. It was clear she was getting fucked hard again. She was also making the sounds that she seemed to make when she was having a g-spot orgasm and squirting. I guessed that it was Davis fucking her again. I wrote back to Justin and said "thank you so much sir1" and listened again. It was fucking hot. It was clear that they were still going at it.

After about 10 minutes I could hear them stop and talk. It sounded like both Davis and Maria needed a water break. I heard some beeping sounds and my phone cut off again. This time I decided to be a good cuck and not say anything or write back and beg them to call. It was clear that they were taking another short break. Our plan was for me to go and be there at 12:30 to pick her up again. Justin had said that his plan was to kick out everyone at midnight and then he wanted some quality alone time with Maria. I was wondering if I would get a text or call that they were done for the night and I should come early? I started to wait again...

30 minutes went by and no pix or phone call. I was once again bouncing off the walls wondering what was going on. I was going to start heading out at 11:45 to go and pick Maria up. I got in the car still wondering what was going on when I got a text from Maria. She said that she would be ready to picked up at 12:30 and I let her know that I had just gotten in the car and was on the way. I started to drive to go pick her up. Still wondering what had been going on? Were they done? Were they still playing? Would I get another call on the way home?

I was about 10 minutes away from Justin's place when my phone let me know that I had a message waiting for me. I could see a little picture show up. So were they still playing?! I was driving so I couldn't tell what was going on. I finally got to a red light and took a few seconds to check my phone. There were three new pictures. One showed Maria getting fucked from behind and then there were two pix of a cock cumming all over her face. The light turned green and I started up again. Just then the phone rang and it was Maria. She was wondering how far away I was and I let her know that I would be there soon.

I pulled up into Justin's driveway and Maria soon came out and got in the car. I saw Justin just for a bit and gave him a smile and a thumbs up! Maria got in the car and the first words from her mouth were, "I'm SO SORE!"

I usually like it when Maria tells me what happened but she told me that the whole night was pretty much a blur. She told me that she had pretty much been sucking cock or getting fucked for about 4 hours straight. Usually both! I thought she had taken a few breaks but she told me that she had only taken a few breaks and they were only for a few minutes and then they got right back into it. Wow! She also said that Justin was really having fun torturing me. He loved calling me just for a bit and then hanging up. She asked me if I was upset about that? But she also said that he was in charge and she didn't really have control of the situation. I told her that it was all good. I had loved the tease and I understood what was going on. It was a Dom/cuckold thing.

We picked up some food on the way home and had a quick bite to eat. Then we went up to our bedroom and Maria got undressed. She wanted me to look at her pussy and see if it looked sore. It did! She definately was all red and looked very well used. It was fucking hot. I really wanted to fuck her but she told me that she was so sore that she didn't think she could take much of my cock.

I got undressed myself and got hard almost right away just looking at her well used body. Then I got between her legs and put my cock inside of her. She could barely take it because she was so sore. But she also started to cum almost right away. I was so worked up that I could tell I wasn't going to last long. I really wanted to give her a nice facial and told her that I wanted her to kneel down by the side of the bed. I stood up and started to stroke my cock. It took me about 15 seconds before I started to cum and I started to cum hard. I drenched Maria's face with cum. I just kept on shooting out rope after rope of cum. It was amazing.

I got a towel so Maria could clean up. We were both exhausted. But I had to admit I was still horny and worked up. My balls still ached. We lay down and turned off the lights. I told Maria that I was still horny and wanted to cum again. She told me that maybe I should jerk off while she told me a little more about how the night went.

While I played with my cock she told me more....

"When I got there we started pretty quickly. Justin told me to go down to the basement to the play area. Davis was waiting for me. Justin came down after a few minutes and told me to get undressed. He and Davis really like the costume I picked out.  I kneeled down and started to suck Justin's cock. Davis got under me and started to eat my pussy while I sucked on Justin. That's when I started to cum.

Then as I said the rest of the night was a blur. I pretty much had a cock in my mouth and one in my pussy almost all night long. My pussy and my jaw is sore. They both really wanted to fuck my ass and since it was just the two of them I thought it would be hot to try. You know I love anal. It felt amazing but it was sort of messy. So we cleaned up. I think that was one of the times we called you. Justin hung up on you right when we were cleaning up but then we started fucking again right away.

David tied up by breasts with the rope and you know how much I love that. He really liked fucking me from on top when my breasts were tied up like that and pointing straight up. Then at one point he flipped me over and started fucking me from behind while grabbing onto the rope. Justin got in front and was feeding me his cock. I was cumming so hard from that...

They both would switch off and they fucked me all night long. It was amazing. As I said I only took a few breaks to have some water and those were only for a few minutes. Then we would start right back up again. When it got close to midnight Justin fucked me really hard from behind and pulled out and came all over my face. You arrived not much longer after that."

and then I came again. Very hard. It had been an amazing and totally hot night. We both pretty much passed out at that point. It had been a great way to end 2015!




Saturday, December 12, 2015

"Have a great night!"

One of the things that I love is when I have plans to go to a sex party. Like tonight. I go to a Walgreens or whatever and the person at the counter says, like they always do, "Have a great night!"

I always laugh to myself. If only they really knew! Yes, I plan on having a great night. Thank you very much! In a few hours I'll be watching my wife getting fucked at a gangbang party and there will be four other ladies there that I'll probably be playing with as well. Yes, it should be a VERY good night! lol

Thursday, October 29, 2015

Intimate sex

I think it's interesting. When I first started swinging I thought, and would often say, "the more the better!" 2 people was fun, 3 was better, 4 was awesome. Once we had our first 4sum I started to dream of small orgies with 3 or 4 or 5 couples. We've done that and yes, I think it's amazing, but...

In the past year or two I've had the opportunity to visit several different ladies for just one on one sex. I've been shocked how much I've enjoyed it. It's so...  intense.

Yes, in a group setting there is an opportunity for more variety. You can dream up so many fun and juicy combinations with various types of bodies. But the one on one sex is more intimate. More intense it seems. It's very different to be in a room with another lady all alone and have it be just the two of us.

For years Maria and I weren't interested in doing separate room swapping. This is where you swap partners and each couple goes off to a separate room to play with each other. We always wanted to be together so it would be more of a group thing and we could watch each other. Now I "get it". I think it also might be fun to be playing with someone thinking about and wondering what Maria was doing just then. So we might have to try it someday!


Sunday, September 27, 2015

Monday morning

I had another one of those Monday mornings last Monday. When I showed up to work walking funny. A sort of stiff limp. I always wonder if my coworkers notice? "Why is he walking funny?"

The reason why? I got together with my new friend Margy and we fucked and sucked and played for hours on Sunday night. ;-)

It was amazing! We had a fantastic time. It was a "hotwife/cuckold" scene with me as the guy with the big cock. I met her in a hotel room. I'm pretty sure her hubby was waiting in the lobby the whole time. Or at least somewhere close. She/we texted him the whole time sending him pix and video of the two of us playing. We also set up a video camera and recorded the whole thing so he could watch later. It was totally hot and as I said we fucked for hours.

But that meant when I woke up on Monday morning I was stiff and sore! It happens when I do this sort of thing at my age. Sex can be a lot of work/exercise. So I walked around last Monday with a funny limp and a funny smile on my face. It had been another great weekend. :-)