I think it's interesting. When I first started swinging I thought, and would often say, "the more the better!" 2 people was fun, 3 was better, 4 was awesome. Once we had our first 4sum I started to dream of small orgies with 3 or 4 or 5 couples. We've done that and yes, I think it's amazing, but...
In the past year or two I've had the opportunity to visit several different ladies for just one on one sex. I've been shocked how much I've enjoyed it. It's so... intense.
Yes, in a group setting there is an opportunity for more variety. You can dream up so many fun and juicy combinations with various types of bodies. But the one on one sex is more intimate. More intense it seems. It's very different to be in a room with another lady all alone and have it be just the two of us.
For years Maria and I weren't interested in doing separate room swapping. This is where you swap partners and each couple goes off to a separate room to play with each other. We always wanted to be together so it would be more of a group thing and we could watch each other. Now I "get it". I think it also might be fun to be playing with someone thinking about and wondering what Maria was doing just then. So we might have to try it someday!
