Sometimes I'm glad that we've had years of awesome fun times with swinging because sometimes things just don't work out. I imagine if we were new to the game we might just throw our hands in the air and give up. We've had a string a bad luck recently that I think would upset newbies. We've been more sort of laughing about it.
Had a date set up with a gentleman we really like. We were really looking forward to a 3sum with him. Maria had even agreed that she would be willing to try a DP for the first time in years. We got a snowstorm that night and we ended up cancelling.
A few weeks after that we had a date set up with a bi lady. A unicorn. Once again we were really looking forward to having a 3sum with her. There was an ice storm that night more in her area further north from us. With the freezing rain she didn't want to drive. We totally understood. Maria and I ended up having a lovely night just the two of us. We had a great time! We sort of laughed about it later. Maria pointed out that there is a reason we're married. We really like each other and spending time with each other. It was still really nice to have a night out together without the kids. But a 3sum with our lady friend would have been nice also.
Then last night I went to a GB party. Usually there are 4 or 5 ladies there. This time there were only two. One of them was older and I hated to say it but I just didn't find her attractive. I wasn't interested in playing with her. The other lady was very attractive however. When the play started she went straight for the guy with the biggest cock in the room. A BBC. They played for a good bit and then he came in her. I put on a condom and thought I might take a turn next. She looked at me and said she needed to take a break. Twenty minutes later she went right back to the same guy she played with the first time. It quickly became apparent that she was only interested in BBC. Which sort of sucked for the half of us in the room who were white guys. I ended up just hanging out with the guys and chatting for a bit and then went home early. A total bust again.
Three times in a row that things didn't work out. I think if we were new we might have been really upset. We just sort of shrugged our shoulders and laughed. Sometimes things work out great. Sometimes things don't work out at all. We have a few fun things planned over the next few weeks. Hopefully I'll be able to post some really fun stories soon! But you never know... fingers are crossed.
