There's something that's we've learned over the years that seems obvious when you point it out but it took us a while to figure out... you just never know what another couple is into and what sort of couples they find attractive.
It sounds so obvious when you point it out but when we started in the lifestyle we looked for couples that pretty much looked like us. We assumed that since we were attracted to each other that we should look for couples that looked like us. It seems logical in a way. We were somewhat surprised when the first couple we played with turned out to be a stocky guy and a tall leggy blond. Sort of the complete opposite of us. I'm the tall skinny guy and Maria is the shorter curvy brunette.
Over the years we've been surprised sometimes when couples we thought would never be attracted to us were totally hot for us. We've also been surprised when couples that we thought seemed to be very much like us weren't into us. The point is you just never know.
It sort of makes it hard in a way! When you see a couple on a swinger site that you think is hot how do you know if they'll think you're hot also? We've learned at this point to be more patient and let folks reach out to us. It seems easier to just respond to the folks who are interested in us in the first place. We get enough interest that we have plenty of fun!
But you never know. Sometimes younger folks are into older folks and vice versa. Sometimes the thin couples are into the more thick couples and vice versa. Sex is awesome and amazing in that you just never know what will turn individual people on...
Sunday, September 25, 2016
Monday, September 19, 2016
New things
Sometimes I think I've seen it all. But last night I saw Maria do two new things. They were totally hot...
We went to our fave GB club. One of the mottos of the club is "Where fantasies become memories". On the drive there Maria and I talked about her limits for the night. She surprised me a bit by saying that she thought it would be fun to say that after 10pm if any guys came on her she wasn't going to clean it up. She wanted to be covered in cum. It had always been a long time fantasy to do that but she thought that some guys weren't into that. She thought if she warned the guys about the time limit that if they were into it great. But if they weren't they had been warned.
So she was really looking forward to getting covered in cum.
The GB started and everyone started fucking. It seemed like it had been going for a while when I noticed that there were three guys around her jacking off. One of them started to fuck her but the other two were still stroking their cocks over her breasts. I told them that as far as I was concerned the time had come. It was after 10 as far as I was concerned.
The guy who was fucking her fucked her for a while longer but then moved away. One of the guys who was stroking his cock moved between Maria's legs and leaned over her and aimed his cock at her breasts. Maria (and I who was watching from the couch just a few feet away) could tell that he was going to cum soon. There was that build up. It took a minute or two but he soon erupted. He started to cum hard and shot several big shots of cum all over Maria's breasts.
But here was the amazing thing. Maria started to cum. I realized that nobody was stimulating her in any other way. Nobody was playing with her breasts. Nobody was fucking her or playing with her clit. It was all from the guy cumming on her. It set her off. She came hard. Really hard. Fuck. It was hot to see. I had never seen her do that before.
There were several more hours of fucking. I came four times that night. Whenever Maria is at the parties it always drives me crazy and turns me on so much that I cum a lot. Two times I came all over her breasts and face myself.
Then at the end of the party something else happened. The host of the party played with her at the end. He has a nice big cock. He started to fuck Maria from behind hard. He started to do this "thing" with his cock. Maria and I still aren't sure exactly what he was doing! He did this thing with the head of his cock. Going in and out really fast right at Maria's opening. It rubbed right against her g-spot. She started to cum harder than I think I had ever seen her cum. He fucked her for a good long time and did his trick on her a bunch. At one point he asked her to turn over. When she moved we all realized that there was a huge puddle under her. So when he did that trick on her it was making her squirt while she was cumming. She had squirted a few times while being fucked but nothing like that. Once again this was something new and amazing.
So two new and amazing things in one night that I had never seen Maria do. It's amazing to me that after all these years we are still doing new and exciting things. That is one of the reasons we love this lifestyle!
We went to our fave GB club. One of the mottos of the club is "Where fantasies become memories". On the drive there Maria and I talked about her limits for the night. She surprised me a bit by saying that she thought it would be fun to say that after 10pm if any guys came on her she wasn't going to clean it up. She wanted to be covered in cum. It had always been a long time fantasy to do that but she thought that some guys weren't into that. She thought if she warned the guys about the time limit that if they were into it great. But if they weren't they had been warned.
So she was really looking forward to getting covered in cum.
The GB started and everyone started fucking. It seemed like it had been going for a while when I noticed that there were three guys around her jacking off. One of them started to fuck her but the other two were still stroking their cocks over her breasts. I told them that as far as I was concerned the time had come. It was after 10 as far as I was concerned.
The guy who was fucking her fucked her for a while longer but then moved away. One of the guys who was stroking his cock moved between Maria's legs and leaned over her and aimed his cock at her breasts. Maria (and I who was watching from the couch just a few feet away) could tell that he was going to cum soon. There was that build up. It took a minute or two but he soon erupted. He started to cum hard and shot several big shots of cum all over Maria's breasts.
But here was the amazing thing. Maria started to cum. I realized that nobody was stimulating her in any other way. Nobody was playing with her breasts. Nobody was fucking her or playing with her clit. It was all from the guy cumming on her. It set her off. She came hard. Really hard. Fuck. It was hot to see. I had never seen her do that before.
There were several more hours of fucking. I came four times that night. Whenever Maria is at the parties it always drives me crazy and turns me on so much that I cum a lot. Two times I came all over her breasts and face myself.
Then at the end of the party something else happened. The host of the party played with her at the end. He has a nice big cock. He started to fuck Maria from behind hard. He started to do this "thing" with his cock. Maria and I still aren't sure exactly what he was doing! He did this thing with the head of his cock. Going in and out really fast right at Maria's opening. It rubbed right against her g-spot. She started to cum harder than I think I had ever seen her cum. He fucked her for a good long time and did his trick on her a bunch. At one point he asked her to turn over. When she moved we all realized that there was a huge puddle under her. So when he did that trick on her it was making her squirt while she was cumming. She had squirted a few times while being fucked but nothing like that. Once again this was something new and amazing.
So two new and amazing things in one night that I had never seen Maria do. It's amazing to me that after all these years we are still doing new and exciting things. That is one of the reasons we love this lifestyle!
Saturday, September 3, 2016
Rejection
I try to keep this blog positive for the most part. Even when I've done the "swinger nightmare" stories I've tried to keep them light and funny. But I've had a few recent experiences that have reminded me that swinging is sometimes kind of tough. You've gotta have a thick skin. You've gotta get used to being rejected.
It's a Saturday night. Right now there are two different hotel parties that are going on that we wanted to go to. Hotel parties with multiple couples playing with each other. Swinger orgies. Our fantasy. But we weren't invited. We were rejected. So we played together and fun together. I made Maria cum really hard and she passed out and went to sleep. So really I had a fantastic night and shouldn't complain but... here I am writing this blog post...
Sometimes it reminds me of high school. Mean girls and cliques. The same old thing. The cool/hot kids and the dorks. Feeling insecure and fat and ugly and dorky and shit.
The first party I knew we were long shots. I had seen their profile on SLS about a week ago. A couple where the guy was in his 40's and she was in her 20's. Their profile picture was a picture of her from behind. She had an amazing ass in a thong. Skinny and hot. They said they had parties every month or two with 4 or 5 couples and to write to them if you were interested in joining. I sent them a note asking them if we were worthy. It took them a few days to write back. It was nice of them to at least respond. They told us that they weren't interested. I noticed that they had a "hot date" ad up for tonight. They were having a party with 2 or 3 couples and were looking for a couple or two more to join them. I knew there was no point in sending them a note. They had already rejected us just a few days ago. Fuck. They're probably in a hotel room right now having an orgy and an amazing time. Fuck.
The second one was another couple that put up a hot date ad in SLS for a party tonight. They were pretty much our age. He was a bigger guy than me. She was skinnier than Maria and looked hot. They were also hosting a hotel party tonight and were looking for couples to join them. I looked at their certs. The other couples that had certified them were about our age and looked similar to us. I thought we had a good chance. I sent them a nice note. Nothing. No response. They even changed their ad after I sent them a note saying that they "were still looking for one more couple". Sigh... They are probably also right now having fun in a hotel room with 3 or 4 couples while we're at home.
This kind of thing happens all the time. I've learned at this point that you never know. Maybe Maria isn't attractive to the other couple? Maybe I look like too much of a dorky nerd? Who knows?
A few months ago a couple that we thought were "friends" put up a hot date ad on SLS looking for a bi lady to join them for the night. The lady's fave guy friend was going to be in town for night. He was a pro athlete and had an amazing cock. They were looking for a lady to join her and him for a 3sum. Maria was up for it and I was fine with her going out and joining her and him. They had talked about this guy before and how amazing he was when they had met before. We wondered why they didn't ask us about Maria joining the fun in the first place? We had told them that Maria wanted to play with him and her. We wrote back to them and reminded them that Maria would be happy to join in. They told us that he wasn't going to be able to make it. That it had been cancelled.
We ran into them at a party a few weeks later. The guy in the couple had a few beers and loosened up and started to talk about the amazing time his wife had recently with the pro athlete and another lady. They obviously lied to us. Sigh...
In many social situations I'm sure this would be considered a betrayal. A stab in the back. Something that could never be forgiven. But if we went to a party in a another month or so and they were there we would probably talk to them and act like nothing happened and play together. That's just how it is in the lifestyle. It sounds crazy but you try to not worry about stuff like that and move on.
Every day I get messages from guys and couples that I blow off and reject. We couldn't possibly have sex with all the people who send us notes. It's just not possible. It's all part of this game. It can eat you up or you can learn to deal with it. We've learned at this point that being rejected is part of the "lifestyle". If you can't deal with it you won't last long.
But a little part of me is still sitting here tonight thinking about what could have been... damn... it would have been fun to be rolling around in an orgy right now instead of staying at home for the night watching baseball, listening to tunes, and playing Civ 5. (not that I don't enjoy watching baseball, listening to tunes, and playing Civ 5!) and part of me knows that we already have some super amazing sexy plans already set up for the next week or two. So it's all good in the end!
But yes. Being rejected is a BIG part of swinging. You've gotta learn to deal with it. What is that song? Pleasure and Pain. I obviously still think it's worth it. For all the rejections that happen the good times that happen far out weigh the negatives. It's totally worth it in the end.
It's a Saturday night. Right now there are two different hotel parties that are going on that we wanted to go to. Hotel parties with multiple couples playing with each other. Swinger orgies. Our fantasy. But we weren't invited. We were rejected. So we played together and fun together. I made Maria cum really hard and she passed out and went to sleep. So really I had a fantastic night and shouldn't complain but... here I am writing this blog post...
Sometimes it reminds me of high school. Mean girls and cliques. The same old thing. The cool/hot kids and the dorks. Feeling insecure and fat and ugly and dorky and shit.
The first party I knew we were long shots. I had seen their profile on SLS about a week ago. A couple where the guy was in his 40's and she was in her 20's. Their profile picture was a picture of her from behind. She had an amazing ass in a thong. Skinny and hot. They said they had parties every month or two with 4 or 5 couples and to write to them if you were interested in joining. I sent them a note asking them if we were worthy. It took them a few days to write back. It was nice of them to at least respond. They told us that they weren't interested. I noticed that they had a "hot date" ad up for tonight. They were having a party with 2 or 3 couples and were looking for a couple or two more to join them. I knew there was no point in sending them a note. They had already rejected us just a few days ago. Fuck. They're probably in a hotel room right now having an orgy and an amazing time. Fuck.
The second one was another couple that put up a hot date ad in SLS for a party tonight. They were pretty much our age. He was a bigger guy than me. She was skinnier than Maria and looked hot. They were also hosting a hotel party tonight and were looking for couples to join them. I looked at their certs. The other couples that had certified them were about our age and looked similar to us. I thought we had a good chance. I sent them a nice note. Nothing. No response. They even changed their ad after I sent them a note saying that they "were still looking for one more couple". Sigh... They are probably also right now having fun in a hotel room with 3 or 4 couples while we're at home.
This kind of thing happens all the time. I've learned at this point that you never know. Maybe Maria isn't attractive to the other couple? Maybe I look like too much of a dorky nerd? Who knows?
A few months ago a couple that we thought were "friends" put up a hot date ad on SLS looking for a bi lady to join them for the night. The lady's fave guy friend was going to be in town for night. He was a pro athlete and had an amazing cock. They were looking for a lady to join her and him for a 3sum. Maria was up for it and I was fine with her going out and joining her and him. They had talked about this guy before and how amazing he was when they had met before. We wondered why they didn't ask us about Maria joining the fun in the first place? We had told them that Maria wanted to play with him and her. We wrote back to them and reminded them that Maria would be happy to join in. They told us that he wasn't going to be able to make it. That it had been cancelled.
We ran into them at a party a few weeks later. The guy in the couple had a few beers and loosened up and started to talk about the amazing time his wife had recently with the pro athlete and another lady. They obviously lied to us. Sigh...
In many social situations I'm sure this would be considered a betrayal. A stab in the back. Something that could never be forgiven. But if we went to a party in a another month or so and they were there we would probably talk to them and act like nothing happened and play together. That's just how it is in the lifestyle. It sounds crazy but you try to not worry about stuff like that and move on.
Every day I get messages from guys and couples that I blow off and reject. We couldn't possibly have sex with all the people who send us notes. It's just not possible. It's all part of this game. It can eat you up or you can learn to deal with it. We've learned at this point that being rejected is part of the "lifestyle". If you can't deal with it you won't last long.
But a little part of me is still sitting here tonight thinking about what could have been... damn... it would have been fun to be rolling around in an orgy right now instead of staying at home for the night watching baseball, listening to tunes, and playing Civ 5. (not that I don't enjoy watching baseball, listening to tunes, and playing Civ 5!) and part of me knows that we already have some super amazing sexy plans already set up for the next week or two. So it's all good in the end!
But yes. Being rejected is a BIG part of swinging. You've gotta learn to deal with it. What is that song? Pleasure and Pain. I obviously still think it's worth it. For all the rejections that happen the good times that happen far out weigh the negatives. It's totally worth it in the end.
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