Don't fuck your coworkers

Since we started having an open relationship years ago one of our firm rules has always been to never fuck our coworkers. It's just too risky.

I think there are people out there that consider swingers to be degenerate perverts who are oversexed and can't control themselves. They probably think that if you're a swinger you'll be the type of guy to hit on all the ladies at work. No self control. But I think the fact that I've had an outlet in swinging and can play with other ladies once in a while has actually made me a better person when it comes to relating to women. I've never made a pass at a female coworker and always treat them as professionals and equals. I think if I wasn't in the lifestyle and was constantly wondering about what other women were like I would have a harder time relating to my female coworkers. Does that make sense?

Especially now with the web there is no reason to fuck your coworkers. It's just so easy to find people to play. Why take the risk of fucking up your career in some way?

Newbies

Sorry to be dicks but... one of our rules (that we DO break once in a while) is to NOT play with newbies. Sorry, but some of our worst all time experiences have been with newbies.

Newbies are so tough. They can look so tempting because they can be so enthusiastic. To be honest a couple of our best times ever have been with newbies because of this. It's all new to them and so exciting. That excitement can rub off and be contagious.

but...

Newbies can also be a disaster. We've played with the newbie couple before where they seemed totally into it but once the clothes come off they've freaked out. I've never had anyone get physical with me but I've gotten some really ugly looks as I've started to fuck a guy's wife, and it's hitting him that he thought this might be fun, but now he's only jealous. We've seen tears and arguments and couples literally running out of the building screaming at each other half naked and that just isn't fun. In fact it really sucks.

The other huge problem is performance anxiety for men the first time they play in a group setting. I think some het guys freak out when there is a nice hard penis only a few feet away from them for the first time in their lives in a sexual situation. Some guys just simply get overwhelmed. They might very well be into it, but the whole experience is just too much for them that first time. So they can't get it up. This is all perfectly natural but it's still a drag.

We were meeting a newbie couple a few years ago and before we met I talked to Maria about this. Should we talk about it before we start to play? Let the other couple know that we know about this problem, that's it normal and natural, and to not worry about it? Maria and I agreed that it probably wouldn't be a good idea. Just planting the seed might make the guy think about it too much and then...

So we didn't say a word and sure enough the guy couldn't get it up, felt terrible about it, and it was a bad night once again.

So we've decided to just not bother anymore. Sorry newbies. But we also see lots of profiles from couples that say they love to get together with newbies. So we figure the newbies can play with those couples first. Have fun! Figure out if this lifestyle is right for you. Then we'll play with you. :-)

Last night

We had an amazing fun night last night! My lovely wife and I went out on a date together.

Julia got dressed sort of sexy. A nice dress that showed off the tops of her beautiful breasts with some stockings underneath. The stockings had a nice pattern on them and were the type that had a built in garter. Sort of a one piece thing. I thought when she bent over her ass looked amazing. We drove into the city and first we went out to dinner. We had been thinking of going to someplace fancy but then I pointed out that maybe we should be a little more frugal and save some money for later since we were thinking of going to the casino? We decided to go to our favorite "good" burger place, Meatheads. I had a great burger and a chocolate milkshake. It was super good!

Then we headed off to the Hump Film Festival at the Music Box Theatre. The Hump Festival is an amateur porn festival that Dan Savage puts together. Our timing was perfect. We got there about 20 minutes early and it was already getting crowded. We found some good seats and did a little people watching. Awesome crowd full of sexy people. 20s through 60s. A lot of male female couples but lots of female female couples and male male couples. A really nice mix. The films were supposed to be a mix of all sorts of genders and orientations. There was a short film at the beginning where they went over some RULES. #1 no cell phones. They said these films were meant to be private and would never be sold on a DVD or put on the internet. If they caught you with your cell phone out trying to take pix or video they would take away your phone. We thought that was a good rule. #2 was that you weren't supposed to make any snide prudish or mean comments. You might see people that weren't your thing. You weren't supposed to say nasty things. No body shaming. We liked that rule also. #3 was to just have fun! Laugh and enjoy yourself.

Before the movie started it wasn't hard to eavesdrop on the three couples behind us because they were talking so loud. They tried to use code words and veiled language but it was totally obvious to Maria and myself that they were swingers and were all going to get together after the show and play together! They talked about if they should "just find a place" or go to a bar afterwards. They decided to "just find a place" and then figured out a spot where they could all easily get home afterwards. We suspected that there were a bunch of people in the audience who were "sex positive" people. It was kind of fun to just be in the midst of a group of people like that. This wasn't a crowd of vanilla muggles.

As for the short films themselves. I can't think of a single one of them that I would masturbate to. It wasn't that kind of "porn". Most of the pieces were funny or artistic or thought provocing in some way. We definitely had some favorites. There was one that was a sort of porn Fantasia that involved Beethoven and genitals. It was really funny. There was one called Rube that was just what it sounded like. A really funny Rube Goldberg thing with lots of naked people. It seemed like some of the best ones were the male homosexual ones. They were really funny. I had never thought of the implications of doing an all male bukkake on a guy with a big bushy beard! A big bushy cum catcher! There was one that was a sexy karaoke thing where naked people sang into a hitachi wand while Joe Bidden's head bounced up and down on the lyrics. Another one was a fantasy that had to do with group sex and fruit. We both agreed that the very best one was about two men who met at a gloryhole. They looked like they were more of a middle aged couple. They had some actors who played them when they were younger playing out the scene. It was really funny and sexy and touching when they revealed at the end that them meeting at that gloryhole began what was to become a 25 year relationship. It was the one that got the loudest cheers at the end. It was awesome and beautiful to watch.

When that was done it was still only 9pm. We decided our next stop would be the casino. While we drove out there I would reach over and touch Maria. I loved feeling the stockings on her legs and her smooth skin above where the stockings ended. She would spread her legs so I could feel all the way up to her panties. I also liked just reaching over and touching and squeezing her amazing breasts. We got the the casino about a half an hour later. We were surprised because it didn't seem as busy as the last time we were there. I like going to the casino on a Saturday night because there is often some good people watching. There are often a lot of ladies who wear short little skirts and high heels. This night was no exception and there was a lot of eye candy to be found. I also just enjoyed being with Maria. We've found that we spend more time and have more fun if we each play one at a time while the other one watches. I would sit down and play a game while Maria would stand next to me. I would wrap my arm around her waist and move it down and feel her ass once in awhile. Her breast would often be sort of bumping in the side of my head while she would cuddle up to me. Then it would be her turn and she would sit down and I would run her shoulders and touch her and look down her dress at her amazing breasts. I always get horny when we go to the casino together on Saturday nights when Maria is dressed sexy!

I had one good streak on one of the slot machines but for the most part both of us crapped out pretty quickly it seemed. We decided we should quit for the night and move on. Maria asked me what time it was. I checked and it was 11:15. It still seemed sort of early.

Now...  earlier in the day Maria and I had sat down and talked about our "options" for the rest of the month. In general, Maria likes to get out once a month to play. So she likes to plan out what she wants to do. We had talked earlier about some ideas. On Sunday, the next day, there was a gangbang at MFA. I had asked our friend Justin to let us know if any of the ladies had cancelled. Maria could be the backup. Justin had told us that even if a lady didn't cancel that Maria would be free to come. We thought that was really nice of him. But we were also already thinking of going to the party in May. There are also several new couples out there that we've been wanting to meet. I mentioned to Maria that we could meet one of them in a few weeks when we had no plans. Then there was one last possibility. A guy we knew and had already met a few times was having an interracial orgy party at a hotel pretty close to where we now live. A 15 minute drive away. It was a free party for couples so it seemed to me that there was nothing to lose. We could easily go and check it out. If it sucked we could just leave. When I was texting with Justin earlier he mentioned that he was going to be there as well so I mentioned to Maria that he was going to be there. It was always nice to go to a party where we knew at least someone.

So it's 11:15 and we're walking back to the car. We talk to each other about what we should do next. Maria asks if we should just go home and play? I reminded her about the party and asked her if she wanted to drop in. I had asked the host and he thought it would be going late. I was a little bit surprised when Maria said, "sure! Maybe we should check it out? If it's really lame we can just leave and go right back home."

So we drove to the hotel where the party was. If you're a swinger in Chicago and you've been to a hotel party in the Schaumburg area you probably know exactly what hotel this party was at! We've had many parties there ourselves over the years. It only took us about 15 minutes to get there from the casino. I didn't even have to use Waze since I knew the way by heart. On the way there I remembered that the note about the party said it was BYOB but also the guys should bring their own condoms. I had forgotten to bring any. Maria suggested that we stop at a Walgreen's. It was already getting late though. I told her I would be happy to just watch and play with her and I would be happy to fuck her when we got home later as well. It wasn't a big deal to me that I might miss out on fucking any of the other ladies. My understanding as well was that this party was more about ladies getting fucked by guys with BBC. I thought it might be better if I just watched anyway.

We arrived and found the room really quickly. We went up to the door and didn't hear much of anything. This didn't sound like a loud and crazy party. We knocked on the door, someone opened it, and we went in. We saw the host, Kasim, and said hello. We looked around and vaguely recognized a few people. This was one of the suites with a living room in the middle and a bedroom on each side. We took a peak in the first bedroom. It was dark and hard to see but there were two ladies on a big king size bed getting fucked. It didn't look like there was much room in there and everyone was busy. We decided to check out the other room.

In that room there were two double beds. There was a lady on each bed. We also noticed that our friend Jason was in the other room and we said hello. It looked like he had just finished playing with one of the ladies. It was late and we were already horny and I think Maria just wanted to play so she went to one corner of the room and took off her clothes except for the stockings she was wearing. She got on one of the beds, I unzipped my pants, pulled out my cock, and she started to suck me. We had only been there for about five minutes and we were already getting naked and playing!

After a few minutes Justin appeared and moved behind Maria. He started to finger her pussy, making her cum and squirt for the first time that night. He soon got hard, put on a condom, and started to fuck her from behind. It was on!

For the next hour I watched Maria get fucked. Sometimes I would join in and she would suck my cock. At one point I fucked her after several guys had fucked her for a long time. I was so worked up that when I pulled out I had one of my record setting cum shots. A bunch of it flew all the way past Maria's face and ended up in her hair. We ended up staying for about an hour and a half and I watched Maria get fucked by four different guys. Almost all of them had really big and really thick cocks. It was amazing! One of my favorite moments was when Maria was getting fucked by Kasim from behind while Justin stood in front of her and she sucked his cock. That was a lot of fun to watch!

At about one in the morning we decided we really should leave. I think at least one or two guys still wanted to play with Maria. She actually got dressed sort of quickly so she could avoid getting ensnared by another guy with a big cock. As much as she probably would have enjoyed it! But we were both really tired. We started to head home. We checked Waze and it told us it would take us 18 minutes to get home. Not bad! We talked on the way home and agreed that we would totally go to another one of Kasim's parties. It had been a great time, couples were free, and it was so close to our house.

We got home, checked on a few things, and headed upstairs to the bedroom. We put the liberator blanket on the bed and Maria took off all of her clothes again except for the stockings. I put a finger in her pussy and she was sore! I played with her pussy until she squirted some. By then my own cock was very hard again and I got on top of her and started to fuck her myself. She was really tight from being so sore and she teased me about being sore from getting fucked by all those big cocks. I was so worked up that I only lasted about five minutes and I filled her pussy with a nice load of cum. We both drifted off to sleep. It had been a great night!

So once again I'll have one of those Monday morning back to work issues. My coworkers will say, "Did you have a good weekend?" I would love to say, "It was awesome! Maria and I went out on a date on Sat night. We went out to dinner, went to the Dan Savage Hump Festival and it was so much fun. Then we went to the casino for an hour or two and had fun there. Then we capped it off with a hotel group sex party where I watched Maria get fucked by four different guys with huge cocks! So yes, it was very good indeed!"

Instead I'll say something like, "Yeah it was great! Maria and I went out on a date on Sat night. We went to dinner. Saw a movie. Headed off to the casino. When we were there we bumped into some old friends and ended up hanging out with them some. It was nice. How did your weekend go?"

30th BDay Party at the Swingers Club!

This night was one of my all time favorite nights! Another "unsafe" sex story though. In fact we pretty much took a break after this to have our first child. This was the last hurra of our "first stage" of swinging. Our family plan had always been that we would have fun in our 20's and then try to have kids when we turned 30. We both got tested, came out clean, and decided we wouldn't take chances like that anymore if we were going to have kids.

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It was 1994.

My 30th birthday was coming up and I was feeling a little depressed about it. I thought about it and realized that it might be fun to celebrate my birthday at the swingers club. My birthday was on a Tuesday. If we went to the party the Saturday before maybe I would have some really fun memories to dull the pain of turning 30! I talked about it with Maria and she thought it could be fun. We thought it would also be fun to have a little swinger birthday celebration. We called the three couples we were playing with at that point. Glen and Robin, Steve and Steffi, and Dan and Stacy. If they could meet us at the swinger club that night it would be a lot of fun! Glen and Robin and Steve and Steffi told us they could make it and thought it would be a lot of fun to meet us there. Dan and Stacy let us know that it was a bad time of the month for Stacy but they would love to join the party just to socialize at the very least. We thought that was really nice of them. It looked like it might be a memorable 30th birthday after all! I was feeling a lot better about turning 30.

Usually when we go to the clubs we like to get there early. The doors open at 8pm and we usually like to get there soon after. One of the things we like to do is watch all the couples arrive. Sort of a sexy red carpet! In this case however we ended up running late. I can't remember why? We ended up getting there at around 9 or so. The parking lot was already getting full. It looked like it was going to be a big party that night. That could be a good thing!

We walked in, checked in, payed our entry fee and walked in the big social room. Almost right away we saw Steve and Steffi at a table with Dan and Stacy. It was one of the big social tables and they were talking to two other couples. We went over and said hello. We hugged and kissed our friends and then made some introductions. Ken and Susan were a couple that Steve and Steffi had met before at the club but we had never met them before. Ken was tall and handsome and had a full beard. Susan was also taller and had a nice curvy figure and long curly blond hair. She was wearing a long sort of loose fitting hippie dress. It looked like she had a really nice body underneath it. They looked like a really nice couple.

Then there was the other couple. It turned out that nobody had met them before but they sort of drifted over to our group. It seemed like everyone was trying to figure them out. To be blunt he was big, fat, ugly, and old and she was young, pretty, and super hot. I'm going to call him Jabba because he sort of reminded us of Jabba the Hut. (I know that's mean but really, he sort of looked like Jabba the Hut!) I'll call her Sara. She was amazing. Totally hot. She looked like a lady you would see in a porno film or something. A playboy model. She was about 5'6" with curly dark hair and a body that looked like it was that classic 36D/26/36 figure. Beautiful large round breasts, an amazing ass, and fantastic legs that looked to be in garters and stockings. Almost as soon as we got there Maria pulled me to the side and we whispered to each other.

"What's up with her?! Why would a lady that pretty and hot be with a guy that hideous? Is she a trophy wife? Is she an escort? What do you think is going on?"

They acted all lovey dovey though. Holding hands and giving each other looks. We decided to just say "fuck it" and go with the flow. Who knew what their deal was? Did it really matter?

Soon after that Glen and Robin showed up and gave us big hugs. They had met Steve and Steffi before but they hadn't met Dan and Stacy or Ken and Susan. More introductions were made and suddenly we had a nice big group full of sexy people! Six swinging couples at the table. I thought that this could be a really fun and interesting night.

One of the critiques we've heard over the years about swinger clubs is that they can be "cliquey". We think this can sometimes be true but... we also think that in a club setting like that people tend to gravitate towards people that they know. That they already have a comfort factor with. I think that night people might have looked at our table and thought we were acting cliquey. I'm sure if you were a new couple at the club and hadn't met anyone before it would have looked intimidating to approach a group like ours where everyone seemed to know each other all ready. We've been on the other side.

We spent the next hour or so just hanging out and talking and flirting and having fun. We really enjoyed hanging out and talking and laughing with our friends. We were really glad that Dan and Stacy were able to make it because Dan was so funny. It also seemed like one of those nights where I was on my game. I was telling stories and jokes and everyone was laughing. Good times! At one point Stacy came over to me and whispered in my ear, "I'm really sorry that I can't play tonight but I promise I'll make it up to you. Happy birthday!" She reach down and stroked my cock and gave me a deep french kiss that curled my toes. In the haze I realized that everyone was cheering and hooting and clapping for us! When we broke our kiss Stacy went over to Maria, whispered in her ear, and then gave her a nice long kiss as well. It was hot and I think everyone at the table was starting to get very worked up.

We got to know Ken and Susan a little more and they seemed like a really great couple! I was getting hornier by the minute thinking about what the rest of the evening could possibly bring. One "problem" however was the issue of Jabba and Sara. Nobody seemed to know what to do about them. Nobody wanted to be rude and ask them to leave our table or anything. They also were kind of fun to hang out with and I, at least, still thought she was totally hot.

At one point Jabba pulled Maria and I to the side. He said that he and Sara had come to the club the week before and he had taken a bunch of pictures. He wanted to know if we wanted to see them because he was really proud of them. He thought Sara looked amazing in them. We looked at each other and I said, "sure, why not?" He pulled out the pictures and said, "here, take a look at them and tell me what you think."

This was in the days before the internet and digital cameras so naked pictures were still sort of a hot thing! He handed me the pile of photos and Maria and I started to go through them one by one. I wondered where he had gotten them developed? (haha, remember that?! taking your rolls of film in to get developed?!) Yes, they were clearly taken at the club while it was empty. He said that he had taken them the week before. They had come and gotten a tour of the club to check it out and see if they would feel comfortable coming together to a party. The pictures were breathtaking and really sexy and hot. They almost looked pro. She looked amazing in them. In many of them she was only dressed in a garter belt and stockings. Her breasts looked amazing. Her pussy was shaved which was still sort of rare at that point. She was really good at posing in different positions. She almost looked like a model. I started to get hard just from looking at them.

Jabba asked me what I thought and I told him that they looked incredible. He asked us what we thought of Sara and Maria said that she was really sexy and looked amazing in the pix. Sara was sort of blushing through all of this. She actually seemed a little bit shy. Jabba was beaming. He seemed proud. I was still wondering what the fuck was up with the two of them? Jabba told me to feel free to pass on the pix to our other friends. I asked Glen who was sitting next to me and seemed very curious about everything if he wanted to see them and he said, "YES!" very quickly, so I handed them off.

Then Jabba leaned into me and made his pitch. He said that all he wanted to do was watch Sara play with another man or couple. He only wanted to watch and didn't want to participate. He said that as soon as we walked in the room they knew that they wanted us to be that couple or I could be the guy. He wanted to take pictures that would only be for the two of them. For their personal collection. He really hoped we or I would be interested. I looked at Maria and she gave me a look like she wanted to talk. I had a feeling that I shouldn't just say "SURE!" on behalf of the two of us and so I said, "Can I talk to Maria for a minute?" Jabba said, "of course. Please, talk about it and let us know. We know this is a bit unusual."

Maria went off to the side so we could try to talk. I asked her what she was thinking. She told me, "I'm really sorry but I really don't want to be anywhere near that guy if I'm playing. He creeps me out. Even though he says he won't play I would be really afraid that he would want to join in."

I said, "Yeah, I can understand that. I still don't understand what's up with the two of them? I think she's totally hot!"

Maria then said, "Yes, she totally is! They said they were interested in a guy as well. Why don't you go for it birthday boy? Have some fun with them and then we can have fun together later on. Just don't take too long playing with her!" She gave me a big kiss. Wow...  it looked like the night was about to turn a little more interesting. I said, "really? Are you sure about that?" and Maria said, "sure! I'm happy to hang out for a bit longer and talk to our friends. Just don't take too long! I might be busy later." and she winked at me.

I walked back towards the table and sat next to Jabba and Sara. I told them that unfortunately Maria wasn't interested but if they were still looking for a guy I would love to help them out. Sara got a big smile on her face and Jabba said, "Why don't we go upstairs then? I'm really looking forward to this!" He was looking forward to this? I was the one who was going to be fucking Sara. I was REALLY looking forward to this!

At this particular swinger club the social/bar area is on the first floor and most of the playrooms are on the second floor. Same of my favorite moments in swinging have been the moments when I'm walking up those stairs with Maria and another couple (or two or three). A couple that we've been talking to and flirting with and now we know we're going to be going upstairs to play. It's hot walking up those stairs. The anticipation is half of the fun I think sometimes. I hate to say it but sometimes the build up is better than the sex itself! That would not be the case tonight.

Jabba started to go up the steps with Sara behind him and me behind her. I loved looking at her ass sway as we walked up the steps. I could slightly peek under her skirt and see her stocking tops. I was starting to get hard already. We got to the second floor and Jabba found a semi private smaller room towards the back of one of the playrooms. We got inside and Sara almost immediately turned to me and I took her in my arms and started to kiss her. Sara put her arms around my neck and pulled me in. Jabba said, "please don't start too much until I get out my camera and started to ruffle through the bag he had brought up with him". I took my time just kissing Sara. I moved my hands down to her ass and started to squeeze and rub her ass. All she did was moan. I really wanted to start undressing her and playing with her more but I waited a minute more. Sara reached down with one of her hands and started to rub my now very hard cock through my jeans. Jabba said, "I'm ready, and I saw the camera flash for the first time."

Sara stepped back from me. She started to unbutton her dress. I kicked off my shoes, took off my socks, and watched as she slipped her dress off her shoulders and it fell to the floor. She was dressed in a very sexy lacy bra, a black garter belt and dark seamed stockings, see through panties, and high heels. She looked amazing. Flash. Jabba took another picture. I felt like I had won the swinger lottery! I pulled off my shirt and Sara stepped towards me again. We kissed again but this time I could feel more of her sexy body. Flash. Another picture.

I felt for her bra strap, found the clasp in the back, and unhooked it. I slipped the bra straps off of her shoulders and her breasts were free. They looked perfect. Probably about 34D with beautiful long pink and very hard nipples. I leaned over and started to lick and suck on of them. Flash. Sara started to moan. She slipped one of her hands in front and felt my now almost painfully hard cock through my pants. Flash. I leaned up and kissed her deeply again while I felt her breasts and she felt my hard cock through my jeans. Flash.

Sara then started to work her way down my body. She started to kiss that spot by my ear. Then my neck. Then she moved down to my chest and nipples. Soon she was on her knees leaving a trail of kisses all the way down. Flash. She started to unbuckle my belt and pants and soon was pulling them down. Flash. I stepped out of my pants. I was wearing a pair of boxers and my cock was making a huge tent in them. Sara started to lick my cock from the outside. It was totally teasing me and driving me crazy. It also probably looked great for the camera. Flash Flash Flash. Jabba was starting to take a bunch of pictures. I remembered all the porn I had seen and tried to help by doing things like making sure Sara's hair was pulled to the side and my hands or arms weren't in the way of a good shot.

Finally Sara pulled down my boxers and my cock sprung free. She started to give me head. She was good. Really good. She took a long time just licking all around the head of my cock. Then she started to lick up and down the sides. It was driving me crazy. Then she started to suck me into her mouth. Deeper and deeper until I was down her throat. She seemed to have no gag reflex. Meanwhile Jabba was taking pic after pic after pic. I was starting to get so turned on I was afraid I would cum. I pulled my cock out of her mouth and leaned down and started to kiss her again. She stood up and I felt her ass again through her panties. Then I started to push her panties over her hips and down her legs.

I felt between her legs and she was shaved smooth. She had a small landing strip on the top. She was also already very wet. I put a finger inside of her and she felt like she was really tight. All this time I was kissing her. She was also an amazing kisser. But I wanted to taste her pussy. I hoped that it would calm me down if I took a little break. I whispered in her ear that I wanted to eat her pussy and she and I laid down on the mattress that was in the room. She laid back and I started to kiss my way down her amazing sexy body. I played with her breasts and sucked and licked on her nipples for a long time. I loved how pink they were and how hard they were getting. She was getting goose bumps. Finally I moved down and went between her legs so I could eat her pussy. She smelled delicious. I started to lick up and down her lips and she tasted so sweet. A very yummy pussy. I started to suck and nibble on her clit and she started to moan louder. Once again Jabba was taking pictures of all of the action. After just a few minutes Sara said, "Please, please fuck me... I really want your cock in me."

Jabba reached into his bag and pulled out a condom. He said, "You'll have to wear this. I hope that's OK?" I was perfectly fine with that and put the condom on. Sara was still on her back so I started to fuck her from on top. Almost as soon as I put my cock in her I knew that I wasn't going to last long. The whole situation was just too hot for me. Sara had such an amazing body. On top of that her pussy was incredible. She was really tight and I could feel her squeezing my cock. I felt like I was going to cum after being in her for about 30 seconds. I pulled out and suggested we switch positions. I wanted to fuck her from behind.

She looked amazing when she bent over. She had a perfect round ass and I loved the way it was framed by the straps on her garter belt. Jabba moved to the side to he could get some good shots of me putting my cock in her from behind. I took my time and tried to make the moment last. I was trying to calm down as much as I could. I teased her pussy by rubbing the head of my cock up and down her inner lips. Finally I put the head of my cock at her opening and started to slowly go in. Once again I couldn't believe how tight she was. I started to fuck her nice and steady from behind. I hoped I would last a little longer this way. Jabba took a few more pix and then all of a sudden he sort of grunted and pulled open his pants. He moved to the front of Sara and she put her head in his lap and started to moan louder. I could feel her pussy start to clench around my cock and I was pretty sure she was cumming hard. I knew I wouldn't last much longer. All of a sudden Sara started to bob her head up and down on Jabba's cock. There was something about the fact that she was sucking him while I was fucking her that started to set me off. Sara started to moan louder herself and I could feel her start to cum again. Jabba took another picture of her with his cock in her mouth while her face was contorted in pleasure. Soon enough I could feel that feeling in my balls and I started to cum hard. I buried my cock deep inside of her pussy and filled the condom. I wish it had lasted longer. I think I only fucked her for about five minutes. But it was amazing!

When I pulled out Sara said, "I wish you had cum all over my face. I love a good facial. Can you do that the next time?"

I started to feel a little guilty for leaving Maria all alone and wanted to get back together with her. I told Sara and Jabba that I thought Sara was amazing but I really wanted to go see if I could find Maria. They understood and told me that if I wanted to hook up with them later that night I was welcome to do so. I thought that I might take them up on that!

I put back on my clothes and gave Sara another deep french kiss. I started to get hard again just from kissing her but I managed to pull myself away so I could go and find Maria. I peeked into the other play rooms but I didn't see Maria anywhere. It seemed like all of the playrooms were already full but I didn't see Maria. I was a little nervous as guys weren't really supposed to be upstairs without a lady. I hoped we wouldn't somehow cross paths. I didn't want to go downstairs, find that she wasn't down there anymore, and feel like I couldn't go upstairs as a single guy by myself to find her. I also really had to pee at this point. I decided to duck into the bathroom, pee, and wash myself off.

I finished up in the bathroom and went back outside into the hallway. Almost as soon as I went out I heard/saw Maria coming up the steps with Glen and Robin. It was perfect timing! Maria saw me and we gave each other a big smile. She said, "Are you done already?" Robin winked at me and said, "and are you ready for more?" I laughed and told them they caught me just at the right moment and maybe we should try to find a place to play. It was already really crowded. We looked around and couldn't find any spaces in any of the private or semi-private rooms. The only spot that seemed to be open was a space in the main orgy room. We had never played in the orgy room before. It was supposed to be more "open" and Maria was nervous about that. I loved the idea! We decided to go for it since there was nowhere else to go. Both of the ladies knew that the rule was that they could always say "no".

We all took off our clothes and put them under some of the chairs that were nearby. The orgy room was a big room that had one wall with a line of mattresses all in a row and on the opposite wall a row of chairs so people could watch if they wanted. The spot that was open was sort of in the middle. There were couples that were playing on both sides of us. It was really hot to look over and see them playing. But they also seemed like they were lost in each other.

Robin said, "how about if we give the birthday boy a special present?" She looked at Maria and she knew exactly what she meant. The two of them got on each side of me and I groaned knowing what was about to happen. My favorite thing. Double head! Glen laughed and moved behind Maria as she got on her hands and knees.

The four of us had played together many times by then so we were very comfortable with each other. Robin and Maria also knew exactly what to do to drive me crazy. They started out by doing what I call the mirror thing. They each would lick and suck my cock together and copy what the other one was doing. They would start at the bottom of my cock. Lick up the side together and then twirl their tongues around my head. Sometimes they kiss each other with the head of my cock between their lips. Everyone once in a while they would just get so caught up in kissing each other that they would forget about my cock. I would just sit and watch them with awe. It was always so hot watching Robin and Maria kiss each other.

Meanwhile Glen was behind Maria and rubbing her ass. He spanked her a few times which I knew she loved. After a bit he started to finger her pussy. It seemed like this always made her cum hard and soon she was cumming while she was sucking my cock with Robin. It was about at this point that I looked up and realized that Jabba and Sara were sitting down in two of the chairs watching us play. Jabba was still dressed but Sara was still only dressed in her garters and stockings. She was rubbing her pussy while she was watching us, one of her legs was draped over Jabba's lap so her legs were spread. We could all see her very wet pussy. Jabba said, "Would you mind if Sara joined you? I would love to watch." Robin almost right away said, "We're sorry but we would rather just play together. But feel free to watch if you want." I had a feeling that Maria and Robin had talked about what to do if this situation came up.

Since it was my birthday I felt like it was ok to make a few "requests", so I asked Robin if she would mind sitting on my face and 69ing with me while she and Maria still sucked on my cock together? She told me she thought that sounded like a like of fun and moved into position. I was soon licking on her sweet pussy and felt her lean over and take my cock deep in her mouth. Almost as soon as she started to suck me I could hear the familiar sound of that first gasp from Maria as Glen's cock entered her and he started to fuck her hard. Almost as soon as Glen entered Maria she started to cum. She had a hard time sucking my cock then but she tried the best she could.

After a bit we changed positions and Glen continued to fuck Maria from behind while Robin turned around, moved down, and sat on my cock. She started to ride me. Maria leaned down and started to lick my balls while she was still being fucked. It was one of those amazing moments of pure pleasure. One of those things you just can't do with one other person! I knew that Robin loved to ride me that way and sure enough she started to cum and I could feel her pussy clench around my cock. I was sort of surprised that I was lasting as long as I was. I assumed it was because I had already cum with Sara earlier? I looked over and realized that Jabba and Sara weren't there anymore. They had moved on. I wondered what they were doing? But I also was very caught up in the fun I was having.

Glen pulled out of Maria and laid down. Maria started to suck his cock that was covered with her juices and cum. Robin looked over and moved off of me and started to join her in sucking his cock together. Robin was on her hands and knees at this point so I took the opportunity to start fucking her from behind. She loved being fucked while she had a cock in her mouth and started to cum hard. Maria and Robin were doing the same things to Glen's cock that they had done to me earlier. It was a lot of fun to watch while I was fucking Robin hard and deep.

After a few minutes Maria moved under Robin and started to lick on her breasts and nipples. This made Robin cum again almost right away. I could feel her already very tight pussy clench around my cock. Maria reached over with one of her hands and started to rub on her clit which made Robin cum oven more. She was on one of those non-stop cumming roller coasters. Hitting peaks but never really cumming down. Every once in a while Maria would reach up and wrap her fingers around my cock. She was feeling my cock sliding in and out of Robin's pussy. Robin was still trying to suck Glen's cock but she was cumming so hard that she couldn't concentrate on what she was doing.

Glen moved around and got between Maria's legs. I watched as he put his thick cock inside her pussy and started to fuck her hard and fast. I could hear Maria start to cum loud while she tried to lick Robin's breasts. Soon we started just fucking each other's wives hard. It was so hot hearing Robin and Maria moan and groan and cum over and over again. It was also hot to look over at the couples that were playing next to us. We also noticed that it seemed like there were now a bunch of people in the room that were watching the four of us play. We were putting on a good show!

We fucked for a long time it seemed but soon both Glen and I were close to cumming. Like usual when we played I came first. For some reason I didn't pull out of Robin like I usually did but I stayed inside of her. As I got close to cumming I think she could tell I was close and started to cum herself. It was amazing feeling her pussy clench hard around my cock and I just couldn't pull out and started to fill her pussy with my second load of the night. I think watching the two of us set Glen off and I think the same thing happened to him. I could tell Maria was starting to cum hard and soon Glen started to cum hard in Maria's pussy. This made Maria cum again so she was having one of those non-stop orgasms. Both Maria and Robin now had pussies full of cum from Glen and myself. I had cum in Glen's wife and he had cum in mine. Robin and Maria started to kiss and hug each other while they came down from their highs. Glen and I just looked at each other, smiled, laughed, and gave each other a high five. My birthday party was going very well at this point!

We were all still in a bit of a daze but we found our clothes and got dressed again. I was amazed that we all found all of our clothes. I was curious where Jabba and Sara had gone. There was a room around the corner from the group room and I took a peek. When I looked in I found Sara on her hands and knees getting fucked from behind. Jabba was sitting in the corner watching. Sara looked up at me and said, "Hi again! I'd love to suck your cock while I'm getting fucked." She looked amazing. Maria was looking over my shoulder at this point. She whispered in my ear, "go for it if you're up for it!" It hit me that as hot as Sara looked I probably wasn't up for it right then. I also felt a little weird jumping in with a group of people that I didn't know. I needed a break!

I told her that I was sorry but I really needed to take a break. I said that maybe we could still have fun later? The four of us staggered downstairs back to the main social room. My knees felt weak from all the fun I had already had. It had already been an amazing night. When we got back downstairs we were a little surprised to see that Steve and Steffi, Dan and Stacy, and Ken and Susan were still there. We knew that Dan and Stacy probably weren't going to be playing that night. They looked happy to see us and said that they really wanted to say goodbye to me/us before they left. We ended up talking for a bit and making plans to meet in a few weeks before they said they should probably head out and get back home. Glen and Robin said they would be heading out as well and we all gave each other hugs and kisses goodbye.

That left Steve and Steffi, Ken and Susan and ourselves at our table. It was getting late and the club was starting to clear out. I was still very interested in playing some more. I was still horny! I was really curious about Susan as I hadn't played with her before. I also noticed however that Steffi seemed like she was trashed. She had been obviously drinking all night. In the past it seemed like Steffi had to get really drunk to feel "comfortable" enough to play. Maria and I had talked about it in the past and had let it slide. Tonight was a party so we let it slide once again. Steve said that they had been talking to Ken and Susan and they wanted to go play together. He asked us if we wanted to join them. I pulled Maria again to the side and we talked. She told me that she was really tired and would be happy to go home but it I wanted to have a little more fun she would understand. I asked her if she was sure and she said yes. I turned to Steve and told him that we would be happy to have a little more fun but we couldn't stay for much longer.

So the six of us walked upstairs. Maria and I were taking the walk upstairs to the play rooms once again. Even though I had already played a couple of times earlier that night I was really looking forward to the idea of the six of us playing! Steve was more at the head of our group and he looked around for a place to play. We ended up in the same room that I had started the night out with Jabba and Sara. It was a little tight with all six of us but it was also nice and cozy and off to the side. Slightly more private. We all took off our clothes. Steffi almost fell down as she tried to take off her pants. Sometimes in group sex it seems like you end up sort of falling into/playing with the person who is closest to you. It's sort of random. In this case once we were naked it seemed like Steffi ended up in my arms while I lost track of Maria, Steve, Ken and Susan.

I kissed Steffi and her mouth tasted like cigarettes and booze. To be honest it wasn't pleasant. But she was a really good kisser and it seemed like she was really horny and into it. Soon enough the two of us were laying down on the mattress next to each other making out. I started to finger her pussy while I leaned over and started to play with her nipples. I've been in the lifestyle now for over 20 years and I've never seen another lady with nipples like Steffi's. Her nipples had to be about two inches across and a couple of inches high. Almost like big peanut butter cups. They were amazing.

My cock by this point was really hard but Steffi was already acting like she was half passed out. Her eyelids looked heavy. I didn't think she would up for sucking my cock so I decided I would fuck her. I moved between her legs and she spread them, smiled at me, and I entered her. I started to fuck her and she started to grunt and groan like she was enjoying it. I had been completely focused on her and realized that behind me I was starting to hear some interesting sounds. It was very clear to me that Maria was getting fucked again and was starting to cum.

I continued to fuck Steffi and she started to build to a climax. She started to hold me tight and I could feel her start to cum hard. Her entire body started to shake. I managed to not cum through her orgasm and continued to fuck her hard. She went limp. After I fucked her for a few minutes more it hit me that she wasn't really responding anymore. She had passed out! Too much alcohol and too big an orgasm? I felt sort of weird fucking her in that state. I pulled out of her and my cock was still very hard.

I turned around and I saw one of those moments that will forever be burned into my memory. Maria was on her hands and knees. Steve was behind her holding her hips and fucking her hard. Ken was laying down at a 90% angle to Maria and she was sucking his cock. Susan was on her hands and knees as well. She had been right behind me so when I turned around I was facing her ass. She was also sucking on Ken's cock. Maria and her were sucking him together. Taking turns passing it back and forth. I also noticed that Ken's cock was HUGE. It was really long and really thick. Maria could barely wrap her lips around it.

I moved behind Susan and put my hands on her hips. I asked her if she minded if I fucked her. She turned her head back towards me and said, "please!". I spread her pussy lips and put the head of my cock at her opening and plunged in. She was the third lady I was fucking that night. I had never had sex with that many ladies in one night before. This party was turning out to be amazing! Plus Susan was hot as well! She had a nice tall curvy body with curly blond hair. It seemed like her pussy was really tight as also. Even though I had already cum twice I wondered how long I would last?

I watched Susan and Maria suck on Ken's cock and it looked like a lot of fun to me. Since it was my birthday I had to ask, "Ken? Would you mind switching places? That looks like a lot of fun!" Ken looked up at me and said, "Sorry dude. This is just too good and I'm getting really close to cumming." He laid back and closed his eyes. I was a little disappointed at first but then realized that I was having an amazing time and perhaps I was being a little selfish. What could I be upset about?! This was still an amazing scene!

We continued on with Steve fucking Maria and me fucking Susan while the two of them sucked Ken. Maria was starting to hit another peak and was cumming over and over again. I loved looking over at Steve's face and watching his reaction as Maria would squeeze his cock. It was soon obvious that Ken was about to cum and Maria and Susan worked hard on teasing the head of his cock with their tongues. Ken was the first to cum. He started to shoot cum all over Maria's face and in her mouth. Maria passed Ken's cock over to Susan and she wrapped her mouth around the head of Ken's cock and got the last few spurts. Ken's cock slipped out from her lips and Maria leaned over and started to kiss her deeply. It was obvious that they were sharing Ken's cum.

The whole scene was too hot for me and I was the next to cum. I grabbed Susan's hips tight and pushed in as deep as I could and started to fill her pussy with my third load of the night. Even though I had already cum twice it was really intense and seemed to last for a long time. I looked over when I was done and saw that Steve looked really close himself. Maria let out one last loud moan and started to cum hard again. This put Steve over the edge and I could tell he was starting to fill Maria's pussy with cum. I knew that this was her second load of the night. Glen had already filled her pussy with cum so now she had two different guy's cum in her pussy. Wow...

We all fell apart and collapsed on the mattresses. I looked behind me and it looked like Steffi was sleeping like a baby. She had missed almost all the fun. The rest of us were in a sleepy daze. Maria looked like she was ready to pass out herself just from all the sex and orgasms. We managed to get dressed and headed back downstairs. We had really enjoyed meeting Ken and Susan so we exchanged numbers with them. We talked for a few minutes more but we were really tired so we said goodnight to everyone and headed out. It had been the best night ever at the swingers club! We left with huge smiles on our faces.

It took us about a half an hour to drive home. We staggered to our bedroom and took off our clothes again and collapsed in our bed. Even though I had already cum three times that night I was still on a sexual high. Maria still looked like she was ready to crash. I felt between her legs and her pussy was still drenched. I put a finger inside of her and it felt like her pussy was still full of cum. It drove me crazy thinking about the fact that two different guys had cum in her that night and my cock started to get really hard again. I moved on my side and my hard cock bumped into her thigh. I think she was even a little surprised that I was ready to go again.

I got on top of her and she spread her legs. She was so wet that I slipped right in. Both Steve and Glen had thicker cocks than mine and she felt a little stretched out. She also felt super wet and slippery. I could tell that she was full of cum. I loved getting sloppy seconds. Actually this was sloppy thirds! I could smell the scent of male cum in the air and knew it wasn't mine. I started to fuck Maria hard. It felt amazing. Maria started to cum again. I could tell when her pussy started to clench around my cock that she was a little stretched out. This and the fact that I knew she was full of two other loads of cum was driving me crazy. Maria had one more massive orgasm and I started to cum myself. Even though I had cum three times already that night it felt like I had a huge orgasm. It was like I wanted to add to all of the cum that was already in her pussy. Another case of amazing after sex. After that last orgasm I rolled off of her and we both pretty much passed out.

When we woke up on Sunday morning I reached over and Maria's pussy still felt very wet. She was still half asleep when I put a finger inside of her. It felt like her pussy was still full of cum. My cock got hard right away and I moved her hand over to feel me. Maria moaned and turned on her side so I could fuck her pussy from behind on our sides. When I entered her she felt tighter than normal. All the fucking the night before had made her pussy sore so now she was a little tighter than normal. But she was still full of cum and very wet so she didn't mind at all when I started to fuck her. The images of all the things we had done the night before filled my head and her pussy still felt amazing and still full of cum. I only lasted a few minutes before I came. Because I was so turned on and I had slept the night I think I had recharged. I swear when I came it was one of the biggest orgasms I've ever had in my life. It seemed like it lasted for two minutes straight. Maria seemed to cum almost the entire time I was cumming as well. When I finally finished I rolled off of Maria and a flood of cum started to pour out of Maria's pussy. She said, "Holy shit! I don't think I've ever felt you cum that much!" and she ran off to the bathroom to clean up. I just laid down on my back with a big smile on my face. Turning 30 hadn't been that bad! lol

Kitty balls

I haven't posted anything in a bit. I think I mentioned that I posted all of the sex stories that I wrote back in the day. Any new sex stories will be new. I've learned that writing new sex stories takes some time! I'm working on one right now that is an EPIC. My 30th birthday party at the swingers club. Amazing night. It's taking a long time to get it all down. In the meantime...

This was a funny story. Was it a swinger nightmare?! Not sure...  but it was a night we'll never forget!

Our friends Dan and Stacy were coming over to our apartment to visit us and have some fun. We were really looking forward to it as we had played with them a few times by then. We were comfortable with them and we knew how much fun they were.

They arrived and we shared a bottle of wine. We smoked a little bit of weed and chatted and caught up on life. We were also all very horny and were looking to play. After a bit Maria suggested we move to the bedroom. Everyone was up for playing so we moved to the bedroom. Clothes started to quickly come off. We had put some candles around to set the mood and I took a minute to light them and turn off the lights. It looked nice. I had about 5 candles lit around the room. Just enough so we could all see each other. It was a nice and sexy mood. We were all ready to go!

We were all naked at this point. Dan went to Maria and started to kiss her while Stacy came to me and I kissed her deep. We quickly moved to the bed. Dan and I laid down on the bed next to each other and Maria started to suck his cock while Stacy started to suck me. It was amazing! I love moments like that. I loved having my cock sucked by Stacy while I could look over and see Maria sucking Dan's cock. I was already getting very worked up.

Just then we all smelled this smell...  it was something weird. something I had never smelled before. It seemed like we all looked over and all noticed together that our cat Malcolm had jumped up on our dresser. He was looking over us while his little furry kitty butt was right over one of the candles. The flames were right up against his poor little kitty balls. It seemed like just when we noticed is just when our poor cat Malcolm noticed his balls were being fried. All of a sudden he went "Yeawwww!" and jumped about three feet up in the air. He leapt off of the table and did this weird scooting thing on the floor for a few minutes straight. I wish I had an iPhone and could have made a video. It would have been a YouTube classic. We didn't know if we should laugh or cry? The poor cat and his poor cat balls! After a moment or two we all just busted up! I think I laughed just about harder then I've ever laughed in my life. I was crying. Watching poor Malcolm do his weird scooting thing on the floor. I also learned that laughing that hard made my cock go soft. Maybe it was the fact that the poor cat had his balls fried?! I had some empathy for the poor cat. I think Dan was in the same position as me. He was laughing so hard he was crying and it looked like he wasn't ready to play anytime soon.

We had to take a break. We made sure our poor kitty was OK. To be honest I can barely remember what happened the rest of the night. I think we chilled out a bit, laughed some more, and finally fucked. It was one of those rare 4sum quickies. As I recall once we finally played it was late, it only lasted about 15 minutes, and Dan and Stacy left pretty soon after. In all these years of swinging what I remember most about that night is our poor cat burning his little kitty balls.

These are the things that happen to real swingers! You can't make up shit like this.

Birth Control

There are many people who have said that swinging is a very matriarchal scene. The ladies are the ones who are ultimately in control. The ladies are the one who say "yes" and the fun is on. If they say "no", and they have every right to do so, there will be no fun that night. So some people have said that swinging is a very feminist grrrl power scene because of this.

There is one thing however that I was thinking about recently that is, I think, completely sexist. Birth Control is rarely, if ever, discussed. Maybe it's talked about if one or both of the couple have been "fixed". Some men love to say that they're "V" safe. They like to meet ladies/couples that will let him fuck the lady without a condom since he can't get her pregnant. Still not safe sex by any means. The only other situation I've run into is when a lady is completely off birth control and is trying to get pregnant. This is really rare though. It seems most couples take a break when they try to have kids. Condoms are only so effective. 

So for the most part what birth control the lady is on is a complete mystery. I think there's an assumption by most men in the lifestyle that it's the lady's problem. It's up to the lady to take care of that side of things and not a word be said about it otherwise. Is that sexist? I think it kind of is.

After sex

btw...  something that we've noticed over the years is that some of the best sex Maria and I have ever had is the after sex. The sex that we have when we come home after an amazing encounter with other people. The sex that we have just together after every one else has left the orgy.

Maybe it's the difference between "making love" and good fun juicy sex? Don't get me wrong. I LOVE having sex with other ladies! I love an amazing 3sum or 4sum or small orgy. But Maria is the best. She will always be my #1.

I think that's why the after sex is so hot? We'll go out and play with other people and then I get to come home and share the adventure with my favorite lover? We'll fuck and talk about the nasty things we did. We love to ask each other what our favorite parts were. We'll ask each other if there was anything we didn't like. We'll also just fuck and just revel in the sensations and enjoy each other's bodies. It seems like some of the most intense sex we've ever had has been after sex. Do I see Maria as more desirable after I see her fuck other people? Does seeing other people desire her validate my own desire for her? We'll come home after a swinger date and I just want to fuck her even more!

I'll look down at her while I'm fucking her and think about that cock that she was sucking just an hour or so ago. I'll think about the look on her face when the other man's cock entered her for the first time. I'll think about the look on the other lady's face when Maria started to lick her pussy for the first time.

I think the after sex is also often really good because I've already cum two or three times already so it can last a nice long time. I can really fuck Maria long and hard. She is also usually really worked up by this point. We've learned how to get her to squirt by playing with her g-spot. When we come home now after we fuck other people I can often get her to squirt long and hard. She loves it!

So go out and fuck other people. Then come home and have the best sex you'll ever have together as a couple! lol

Fave song

So my kids accuse me of having "weird" musical taste. I listen to a LOT of different stuff. One of my favorite genres of all time is mid-1960's Jamaican Rock Steady and early Reggae. One of my favorite songs of all time is "Girl I've Got A Date" by the great Alton Ellis. At the time it was released this was a huge hit in Jamaica. Alton Ellis was bigger than Bob Marley in 1966. I LOVE the lyrics. To me this is a swinger song.

"Girl I've got a date
And I just mean, I can't stay late
All of my life and I've been warning you girl
And not just once or twice
Take this from me, I'm as free as the birds in the tree"

I've been listening to this song for a long time. First of all the bass line and the rhythm and the instrumental track are crucial! Alton Ellis' vocals sound sublime. It's a great vocal track by him. He's on top of his game. Then there are the lyrics. Who is the girl that he is singing to? It is his wife? His girlfriend? He's telling her that he's really excited about his date. He can't stay late. So I'm assuming she's his "primary" relationship? He's hanging out with her but he has to get ready to go out and see his other lady friend. But he'll be back.

He also says that he's warned her all of his life. He's made it perfectly clear that he just isn't a monogamous kind of guy. We have to assume she's OK with that. He's letting her know once again that he's going out for a night of fun.

Then he says he's as free as the birds in the tree. I love it! To me this song sounds joyous. It's a happy song. Life is good. What I also love about the song is that it only has three verses. They are almost identical, and the third verse is the same as the second verse. The Ramones could have written this one!

In the second verse there is the line

"All my, all of my life and I've been warning you girl
You just can't be my wife
Take this from me, I'm free as the birds in the tree"

I interpret this to say that he just can't be in a traditional monogamous relationship. This lady can't be his "wife" in the traditional sense. But he's with her singing this song right? It doesn't sound like a breakup song. He's not dumping her or dissing her. It doesn't sound like he's being cruel to her. He's just telling her how it is. He has a date and he's excited about it and he's reminding her that this is the way their relationship is.

The reason I bring this up is that I've had this song in my head the past few days because I have a date this coming Friday. I can't wait! It's with one of my favorite lady friends for some one on one fun. We were going to meet a few weeks ago and things didn't work out so I'm really looking forward to seeing her again. It's been a while. Maria knows all about and she knows that I can't stay late at home that day. I'll be heading out. She knows that "I'm as free as the birds in the tree" and she's totally fine with that at this point. She is as well! She also knows that at the end of the night I'll be home and sleeping next to her. Meanwhile, all week long this song will be in my head...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CvzthjJI9Xg

First full swap 4sum

This is another story from long ago. Our first full swap 4sum with another couple. Happened in the early 90's. Once again this is another "unsafe" sex story. One of the things that made us eventually break up with this couple was that when we decided we wanted to use condoms when we played, Glen told us he wouldn't use them. Anyway, another trip down memory lane. This really was an amazing and fun night!

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Maria had met Glen and Robin for several FMF 3sums by then, both Glen and Robin had joined us separately for MFM and FMF 3sums, but we still hadn't gotten together as a 4sum. We had finally figured out a good time for all for of us to meet and they were coming over to our apartment. We were really excited about having our first 4sum with another couple! This was something that we had talked about and fantasized about for years. It was finally going to happen and we couldn't wait!

Maria wanted to dress extra sexy so she wore my favorite sun dress. She left the top few buttons undone so her beautiful 34DD breasts were almost busting out and she wore a garter belt and fishnet stockings underneath. She left most of the buttons undone on the skirt part as well. All it would take would be to unbutton about three buttons and she would be naked! I wasn't sure what to wear so I dressed casual in a pair of jeans with a button up shirt. We both took showers to make sure we were squeaky clean. We wanted to look good for our friends!

They were supposed to arrive a little after 7. We were super nervous and excited about them coming over. We puttered around the apartment all day making sure everything was in place. At 7:15 our doorbell rang and Maria and I both jumped up. We pressed our intercom and Robin said, "we're here!" We buzzed them in and waited the minute or two for them to get to our place. We heard a knock on our door and opened it up and invited them in. They had brought a bottle of wine with them and we thought that was nice. I thought Robin looked hot. She was wearing a short black leather skirt and I could tell she was wearing stockings underneath. They were the kinds with the seams down the back. I love that look! When she took off her jacket she had on a white blouse that was shear enough that it seemed like you could just make out her nipples under her lacy bra.

We hung out in our living room for a bit and made small talk. I think we thought we had to "socialize" before we played. There were a fair amount of awkward pauses and there was some heavy sexual tension in the air. We all knew why we were there and I think we all wanted to get going but nobody knew how to get things started! We really were very new to all of this. Robin was sitting across from me and she would tease me by crossing and uncrossing her legs. Her skirt started to ride up her legs and I could see the tops of her stockings and a little bit of her creamy smooth flesh. My cock started to get hard just from looking at her and thinking about what was going to happen. The clock ticked on and on. Soon it was almost 9 o'clock.  After another long awkward pause Maria said, "maybe we should move to the bedroom?" Robin said, "that sounds like a great idea!" It was on!

Perhaps now is a good time to describe the four of us as we walked towards the bedroom to all play together? At the time Maria and I were in our mid 20s. Glen and Robin were a couple of years older but still in their 20s as well. I was basically tall nerdy and skinny, clean shaven with short brown hair and a nice long cock. Glen was sort of the opposite of me. He was an ex Army guy. He was shorter and all muscle. He worked out a lot and had a mustache. He also had a super thick cock. It was like a soda can. Maria loved the way it stretched her pussy out. Robin was tall and curvy. She had a classic figure with strawberry blond hair and beautiful large breasts. She sort of looked a little like Marilyn Monroe. Maria was sort of the opposite of her! Maria is just over five feet tall with curly dark hair and had a nicely curvy body with a big ass and amazing 34DD breasts. This was going to be fun!

We went into the bedroom and at first we stayed with our own partners. Maria and I started to kiss each other. I looked over and could see Robin and Glen doing the same. I watched Glen unzip the side of Robin's leather skirt and push it down over her hips and onto the floor. Robin looked hot in her garter belt and stockings and tiny little panties. I started to unbutton Maria's sundress starting with the top button. As I undid the top button her breasts were now free. I leaned down and buried my face between them and started to lick and kiss her cleavage. I reached for her nipples and they were both already rock hard. I moved over and started to suck on one of her nipples and I heard her moan. I thought I heard a gasp from the other side of the room and lifted my head to see what was going on.

Glen had his hand down the front of Robin's panties and was fingering her pussy while they kissed. That looked good to me and I undid the last few buttons on Maria's sundress and slid it off of her shoulders. She wasn't wearing any panties so she was now naked except for her garter belt and fishnet stockings. I moved my hand down to her pussy and put a finger inside. She was dripping wet! I wasn't sure if I ever remembered her being that juicy wet. She was obviously really looking forward to this! Almost as soon as I put a finger inside of her she started to cum. I knew that would be the first of many that evening. I looked over again and watched Glen slide Robin's panties down over her hips and then they dropped on the floor.

I kissed Maria again and I looked over just as Glen was taking off Robin's blouse and then he took off her sexy lacy bra. She had amazing breasts. I couldn't wait to play with them. She was now standing there in just her garter belt and stockings and she looked amazing! Maria looked at Glen and I who were both still fully dressed and said, "it looks like the two of you have some catching up to do!" Then she walked across the room and melted into Robin's arms. The two of them started a deep french kiss. Glen and I started to take off our clothes as fast as we could!

While the two of us finished undressing Maria and Robin crawled onto our king size bed and started making out. It was so hot watching the two of them kiss and play with each other's breasts. Robin leaned over and started to lick and suck one of Maria's nipples while she put a finger in her very wet pussy and started to wiggle it around. Maria started to cum again almost right away.

By now Glen and I were both naked and we both got on the bed on each side of the ladies. He laid next to Maria and I laid down next to Robin. Maria turned around and started to kiss Glen while she reached down to feel for his cock. She realized his cock was rock hard and moved down and started to suck him. Robin saw what Maria was doing and said, "that looks yummy! would you like some help with that?" She moved down and the two of them started to suck his cock together. One of my all time favorite fantasies. But I was just watching! It looked amazing. The two of them would take turns sucking him, then they would lick up the side of his cock together. They would twirl their tongues around the head of his thick cock and then they would kiss each other. Glen was moaning in pleasure. I just sat there watching for a bit. I have to admit I was starting to feel a little jealous. But then it hit me that we were only beginning. There was plenty of time and hopefully this would be a long night full of fun. It also hit me that Maria and Robin were both on their knees at that point sucking Glen together. Both of their asses were up in the air ready to be fucked.

I moved behind them and started to rub the head of my cock up and down Robin's very wet pussy. I was already really super turned on and excited. With one hand I teased Robin's pussy with the head of my cock and then I reached over with my other hand and started to stroke Maria's beautiful ass. I reached down and put a finger in her very wet pussy. After a bit more teasing Robin turned her head around and said, "oh my god, fuck me....  please!!!" I put the head of my cock in her pussy and plunged inside. I thought I would cum just from being inside of her. It was all so intense and she was still only the third lady I had ever fucked. I tried to just stay still while she shared Glen's cock with Maria. Moans were filling the room now. I still had a finger in Maria, my cock was deep inside of Robin, and the two of them were still sucking Glen together. This was amazing and fun!

Robin started to grind on my cock. She wanted to get fucked. I started to fuck her but I could tell that I wasn't going to last long. I felt sort of bad that I was going to cum so quickly. But I couldn't help it. It was too exciting for me! I tried to go slow but that wasn't going to help so I just started to pound her hard and fast. Robin started to cum herself from this and when I felt her pussy start to clench around my cock I started to cum myself. I pulled out and covered her back with rope after rope of cum. It was a LOT! I felt like a came for a minute straight. I came back down to earth and offered to get some tissues to help clean up Robin. She told me, "next time please feel free to cum all over my breasts. I love that." Sounded good to me!

Glen said, "Robin why don't you get in front of Maria so she can eat you while I fuck Maria from behind?" I started to get hard again just from hearing this even though I had just cum. Robin moved in front of Maria and spread her legs so Maria could dive into her pussy. Glen moved behind Maria and shoved his thick cock again in her very wet pussy. I could tell Maria had a huge orgasm as soon as he put his cock inside of her. Glen started to stroke in and out of Maria with a steady hard pace. Maria tried her best to eat Robin's pussy but she was cumming a lot. The room was soon full of the sounds of moaning and groaning, I could hear Glen's cock slamming into Maria's juicy pussy and I could hear the sounds of Maria licking and sucking Robin's pussy. I really enjoyed just listening to the sounds of the two ladies moaning and groaning and cumming together. I had always loved to listen to Maria when she would cum. This was even better! It was also just so hot watching Maria. I was starting to realize that I was a voyeur at heart. This whole scene was so hot!

My cock was by now very hard from watching all of this. I moved up to Robin and she started to suck my cock. She was really good at it and tried to swallow as much as my cock as she could but she was also distracted by Maria eating her pussy. The whole scene was so hot I thought I might cum again soon. Robin started to cum hard from Maria eating her pussy and she got very sensitive down there and needed a short break. She suggested that we should shift around a bit and she and Maria could suck my cock together while Glen continued to fuck Maria from behind. That sounded awesome!

I moved so I was at an angle to Maria. I wanted to be able to watch Glen's cock sliding in and out of her pussy from behind. Maria started to suck my cock from one side while Robin got on the other side and joined her. Wow...  This was amazing! The two of them attacked my cock together and did the same sort of things that they had done to Glen earlier. The sensations were incredible. I loved it when they would twirl their tongues around the head of my cock and start to kiss each other with my cock between their lips. Glen was still pounding into Maria from behind and she would start to cum hard every minute or so. Soon her head was down in my lap more licking and sucking on my balls while Robin started to suck my cock more. I was in heaven.

I was also surprised at how long I was lasting this time. I seemed to have gotten over a "hump" and was good to go. On the other hand I was even more amazed at Glen. He seemed to be able to keep going and going. I couldn't even count how many times Maria had cum. I was in the mood to fuck some more by this point so I suggested another position. Since Maria was on her hands and knees I suggested that Robin crawl under her in a 69 position. They could start by sucking on each other's breasts while they were getting fucked then they could try to move down and start licking each other's clits while we fucked them both. Glen and I wanted to try all the fun things we had seen in porno flicks!

As soon as Robin moved into place and started sucking on Maria's nipples it set her off again and she started cumming hard. I moved into place and started to fuck Robin from on top while Glen continued to fuck Maria from behind. I got a nice stroke going and Robin started to cum hard as well. She was really enjoying getting fucked while Maria played with her breasts. Just from Glen and I pounding away at each end made the ladies scoot down further. Soon they were close enough that they started to 69 and eat each other's pussies while Glen and I tried to fuck them more.

This turned out to be one of those moments. They often show things in porno movies that look like a lot of fun but they turn out to be really hard to do in real life! When the ladies were eating and licking each other Glen and I discovered that it was really hard to keep on fucking them. Their heads would be in the way! We tried our best for a bit but we ended up falling apart and laughing about it.

Robin said that she wanted to try something. She said she loved riding me before and wanted to do it again. I was flattered and happy to help her out. Maria said she would love to get fucked from on top. Her knees were starting to go from being fucked from behind for so long. I laid down on the bed and Robin got on top of me. Maria lay down next to me and Glen started to fuck her hard again. I was still amazed that he hadn't cum yet. Since we were right next to each other Robin leaned over and started to kiss Maria while she was riding me. It was so hot to watch them kiss each other while Robin went up and down on my cock. Robin started to play with Maria's nipples and pinch them while kissing her and Maria started to cum hard again. With Glen fucking her on top it started to make Maria have one of her continuous orgasms where she cums over and over again in waves. Robin was starting to really enjoy herself as well and I started to feel her pussy clench around my cock as she started to cum in waves of pleasure. It was all too much for me again and I felt myself starting to cum again. I tried to pull out and cum over Robin's breasts but I couldn't get in position in time. I ended up cumming a bunch on her leg and tummy but I did manage to get a few drops on one of her breasts. She leaned over Maria and offered the bit of cum on her breast for Maria to lick off. Maria licked it up. Once again I started to get hard again right away from watching this! I helped Robin clean up again while Glen continued to fuck Maria hard and steady.

Robin had a glazed look in her eye watching Glen fuck Maria and she started to play with Maria's breasts again. After a bit she swung her legs over Maria's face and lowered her pussy to Maria's lips so she could eat her. Once again I was watching a super hot scene while my cock got harder and harder. Maria was on her back, Glen was between her legs fucking her deep and hard. and Robin was kneeling over Maria's face while Maria ate her pussy. Robin started to cum while Maria was licking her clit and I could hear that Maria was cumming again as well.

Robin looked over and saw my hard cock and said, "are you ready to go again?!" and we both laughed. (one of the things we've learned is that the best sex often includes some laughing!) She moved off of Maria's face and laid down on the bed next to Maria and spread her legs. I moved over and put my cock inside of her now very wet pussy. It drove me crazy thinking that just a minute before Maria had been licking her pussy and now I was fucking her. I was really enjoying this group sex thing!

For a long time it seemed like we just fucked. Glen fucked Maria and I fucked Robin. I was still amazed that Glen hadn't cum yet. His stamina was amazing. I fucked Robin on top, then from behind and finally I ended up on my back with her riding me again. We finally ended up in a position where I was on my back with Robin riding me and Maria was on her back next to me while Glen fucked her hard and fast. I reached over and felt Maria's hand and we started to hold each other's hands while we were both getting fucked. At one point I remember her turning her head towards mine while I looked at her. We were both having so much fun. She mouthed, "I love you!" and then started to cum again. An intimate loving moment between the two of us in the middle of fucking other people. It seemed like that final orgasm was what put us all over the edge. I started to cum hard myself. Robin was on top of me and I couldn't help it. I filled her pussy with my cum. As Robin felt me starting to cum it made her cum again really hard. I could feel her tight pussy squeezing my cock and her legs started to shake. She collapsed on me while I filled her pussy full of one last load. Just then we heard Glen grunt and groan. He pulled out and started to cum all over Maria. Finally! I had never seen anyone cum that much in my life. Even in all the porno films I had seen. It was amazing. It seemed like he covered Maria with a gallon of cum. He shot so far that some of it ended up on her face. But most of it covered her amazing breasts. She was covered in cum and it was dripping down her breasts and face. It was hot.

Robin got off of me and moved over to Maria and started to kiss her and lick the cum off of her face. They shared a kiss and Glen and I could see the cum on both of their lips. Amazing. Then Robin said, "now I can do one of my favorite things", and she leaned over Maria and started to rub her breasts all over Maria's cum covered breasts. There was so much cum that soon the two of them were covered in cum and their breasts were slipping and sliding against each other. They started to rub their cum covered nipples against each other and soon they were both cumming again from the stimulation. It was amazing to watch. My cock one again was hard just from watching this. Maria started to kiss Robin again and soon they were making out again.

Glen got off the bed and said, "that was amazing! I guess we should go now." and started to put on his clothes. I was ready to go again but Robin said, "yeah, I guess we should get going. It's getting late." I looked over at the clock at realized it was almost 1 in the morning. We had been fucking for almost four hours! It had been an amazing night. We had so much fun. They got dressed and quickly left. I was still so horny that I fucked Maria again after they left. We both slept like logs.

When we woke up the next morning the sun still rose in the easy and set in the west. We still had to go to work on Monday morning. Nothing much had really changed. We sort of wondered why so many people make such a big deal about swapping partners? It hadn't been that big a deal. It had been totally fun! It didn't "destroy" our marriage. We weren't jealous or anything. We had no intention of either of us running off with Glen or Robin. We were still very happy married. It had just been an amazing awesome sexy night. We were walking on air! Swinging was fun!

Who is our anonymous admirer?

btw...  one swinger secret/rule if you're a beginner is to set up a private email account just for your swinger communications. It's so easy to set up a free email account at gmail or whatever these days. Set up an account just for your swinger stuff and keep it separate from your real life emails.

So anyway, yesterday I checked our good old hotmail account that we've had for about 20 years now. I had an email from LifestyleLounge, one of the swinger websites. We let our account lapse on LL (as they call it) because, to be honest, we have had a lot more luck finding people on SwingLifeStyle. SLS. But we've always liked LL more than SLS in terms of web design. It's a nicer site with better features. But it also seems that it's the site of the young and beautiful and skinny and hot swingers. Lots of 20 somethings who want to go out dancing all night at the next Meet & Greet. Not really our scene. 

So I got an email from LL saying that an anonymous donor had given us a free lifetime membership to the site. What? Really? I logged into the site for the first time in a couple of years and it looks legit. It looks like someone gave us a free membership. Wow. Whoever you are out there if you're reading this. Thank you!

So now I'm looking at all the young and skinny and hot couples. It will be nice to be on the site again. I always really liked their "booty call" page and the forums. On the booty call page couples and singles put up a post/ad if they're particularly horny that day and want to fuck. It's a great way to be a little more spontaneous. There have been a few times when we would see a booty call from a couple that we had played with in the past. We would write them a note and end up having fun that night! 

One of the other things we've had to learn over the years is that you have no idea what turns on other people out there. We've had situations where we've gone to the swinger clubs and a hot young skinny couple have approached us because they get totally turned on by older curvier mature couples. So you never know.

I think what I'll do with LL is see who writes to us. This is something I've been doing more and more on the swinger websites. I don't send out that first message. I wait to see what couples send us a message first. Then I know that they are perhaps interested in us. They are the ones making the effort to reach out to us. It seems like we have more luck that way. We also aren't looking that hard right now as we have some great friends we've been playing with. So if an amazing couple or single or opportunity presents itself we're happy to think about it. But we're not in the situation right now of sending out a bunch of notes to couples/people we think are hot and seeing who responds.

Anyway, thank you once again anonymous admirer whoever you are. Maria and I were trying to figure it out last night. We have a few suspects. Kind of a fun mystery. :-)

Is Swinger a bad word?

I called this thing American Swinger. Should it be called American Poly instead? For one thing I don't think that has the same "ring" to it.

How about the American Journal of Responsible Non Monogamy?
American Open Relationship?

I still like American Swinger the best.

At this point in 2015 I wonder what most people think of the word swinger? It seems like a lot of younger people prefer to use the term poly or just open relationship. Is swinger a bad word? Does the word swinger bring to mind the stereotype of the guy with the gold chain around his neck and an open shirt with his trophy blond wife with fake tits on his arm? Are swingers simply the folks who like to go to the swinger clubs? What makes you a swinger? If you have any relationship outside of a conventional monogamous relationship does that make you a swinger?

To me all it means is being in an open relationship that is open and honest.

What is poly? In my mind, at least in the old days, to me poly was more about relationships than sex. To me a poly person is interested in forming lasting loving relationships with multiple people. Maybe I'm old school but to me a poly relationship is one that is a 3sum or moresum that live together as a family. It's serious stuff!

I do think it's entirely possible for humans to fall in love with more than one person. Why not? I also think about how much communication goes into my single relationship. I can't imagine adding another person into the mix. It must be a lot of work to keep a successful poly relationship going strong. Major props to those of you who can do it! Awesome!

The term open relationship seems so wide open to me. There are so many different types of open relationships. That is perhaps a whole other post. So yes, to me swinger is the right word. My wife and I like to have sex with other people! We like 3sums and 4sums and small groups. While we love to make new friends and prefer to make long lasting friendships that go on for years, we're not looking to fall in love and move in with you.

So call me a swinger!

btw...  I've never even owned a gold chain. I don't ever wear silk shirts wide open to show my manly chest hair. I don't wear cologne. My wife's breasts are completely natural. I usually wear black and listen to a lot of punk rock. Maybe we're not swingers?! We've never fit the stereotype. Which is one reason why I think the stereotype is a silly one. There are a lot of different types of people who I would call swingers. So let's chill about the labels and just have fun!