Had my date with Jessica. Like usual it was amazing! It seems like every time we get together we have so much fun! Tonight was a little different though...
First of all. It's been really hitting me recently that I've been doing this for a LONG time this "swinging" thing. The first couple we ever played with, (Ryan and Lisa) lasted about two, maybe three years. We met the other Maria. We played with her for about two years before she had medical issues. We met some other couples in the "first stage" of swinging and then took a break when we had our first kid. Then we met (Kay and Jim). We played with them for about two/three years? We took another break for our second kid. But the point is, we never played with anyone for more than two or three years.
When we started to play again after our second kid it seemed like everything had changed. There were web sites where you could meet other swingers! It was awesome but it also seemed like it changed things somewhat.
Also, after our second kid I had a swinger experience that sort of changed me. I met on SLS a couple. But it was more that I started to email/message the female half almost every day. The funny thing was that she was a super smart educated lady with a porn star name. I fell head over heals for Christie.
She had an undergrad in Woman's Studies and a Master's in Library Science and was working as a librarian. She was the hot librarian! She was also a Trixie (look it up). We started to email every day. She dropped enough references and experiences that I knew she was real. Things about swinger clubs that you would only know if you had actually been to them. I got the "feelings" for her without even thinking about it. She was hot and interesting and smart. A deadly combination for me.
We also had a 4sum date with them early on. We met them as a two couples in a bar and chatted and got to know each other for a bit. In person I think she and I hit it off while Maria and her hubby didn't really click the same way. I still will forever remember the kiss that Christie and I had after that first meeting. We left the restaurant where we met and kissed each other on the sidewalk outside. She was wearing a long coat the was open. I remember wrapping my arms around her waist inside her coat. One of those intimate hot moments that wasn't hardcore sex but still very hot. Maria kissed Grant but I don't think it had the same "intensity" that my kiss with Christie had. I was obsessed...
We emailed each other every day for about a year. But the funny thing is we never actually fucked. It was just a massive tease. After about a year we did finally set up a date one night. She and I met in a hotel room. We banged for about an hour or so. It was totally intense. At one point she went off to the bathroom for a bit. When she came out she was bouncing off the walls. I still think, after all these years, that she snorted some coke. It just seemed like something was going on. I never asked her about it...
We drove to downtown Chicago late at night. We ended up going to Fado. An Irish Pub themed bar. The band was awesome that night and played a bunch of traditional Irish folk songs that I knew from listening to the Pogues and the Dubliners. We drank Guinness and sang together. I was really horny and wanted to fuck some more. But I ended up dropping her off at 2 in the morning near her place and driving home. That was the only time we ever fucked.
We emailed each other for a few months after that.
I know the whole thing made Maria grumpy. The fact that we would email each other every single day seemed a bit much to her. I still remember the night when she got grumpy at me and said, "you're having an affair with Christie. It may not really be a physical affair but it's an emotional one, and it's pissing me off!" I said, "what the hell are you talking about. That's crazy!"
Then I remember waking up the next day and saying. "Oh my God. She's right!"
It also hit me that for all the emails. The year and a half of all that work and time. We had fucked once. The bubble burst. It was weird. All of a sudden we stopped emailing each other. It sort of burst on her end as well at the same time. A house of cards that collapsed.
So since then I've been wary of catching, as Dan Savage would say, those "feelings". The point is. I am totally in love with Maria for the long haul. I can't image ever leaving her. She's a part of me. I've tried to make sure, since the Christie "incident" that I'm careful about that sort of thing. I try to not get to worked up about particular ladies or couples. I try to be a little emotionally distant. Try not to be too clingy.
Then I met Jessica at MFA. It's hard for me to think about how long we've known each other now. 3 or 4 years? I've written a number of posts about her. But it recently hit me that I think she may pretty much be my "record" for the person who I've had sex with the longest in my life other than Maria.
As I said I think I learned from the Christie incident. Jessica and I text each other. But it's once every few days. Sometimes it's not for weeks at a time. I also know that she has other lovers and other things that she does. Good for her! We text once in a while and set up dates to meet. About once every month or so. Maybe 4 or 5 times a year? So it's not like it's every week or even every month. But it's been steady. She's a good friend at this point. I really think I've done a good job of not catching "the feelings" for her. Yes. She is a good friend at this point but I really don't think she threatens Maria in any way. Maria knows that I'm not going to run off into the night with her.
So Jessica and I met at the hotel we like to meet at on Saturday night. It seems like usual we were both naked and fucking each other in about ten minutes. It seemed like something was going on. It seemed more "intense" than normal. When she kissed me it just seemed like "wow, damn, wtf?!" It was hot. When we play there is lots of oral and teasing and foreplay. We get really worked up. When I finally put on a condom and started to fuck her it seemed like she came REALLY hard.
We have a thing about the tables in the hotel rooms. She likes to go and lean over the tables and have me fuck her from behind. She'll cum so hard that her knees will wobble and she can barely stand up. I hold her by her hips and help keep her from collapsing while my cock is deep inside of her. I fucked her this way for a while until I felt like I was about to cum. I pulled out, pulled off the condom, and came all over her back. Jessica has a tattoo of a lady on her back. When I came my first spirt went so far that it hit the lady tattoo right in the face! I joked with her that I gave her tattoo a facial!
We took a short break and I must admit I was super horny and wanted to start playing again. We played with some toys and I made her cum really hard. Then I got on top of her and started to fuck her really hard. She came REALLY hard. Like harder than I had ever seen her cum before. It was sort of amazing but also sort of scary. I was a little worried about her. She told me that I needed to get out of her and not even touch her. She needed a break. I did my best.
We talked and decided that maybe we should take a break and have dinner together. See how she felt after we took a break? We went to a fave pizza place that we've been to together a couple of times already. We munched on pizza and talked about stuff and had a great time. We talked about growing up and high school and stuff. We showed each other pix of each other back in the day. It was really fun!
But when we were done with dinner she told me she just wasn't up for any more sex. I told her that I had to admit that I was still a little worked up but she said she was sorry but she just wasn't up for more. That last orgasm had totally wrecked her! We drove back to the hotel so she could drop me off. I was a little disappointed but I wasn't going to push it hard. I did make an attempt once we parked and asked her if she was sure she didn't want to go upstairs again but she said no.
I ended up going back up to the room and looking at porn for a bit and jerking off because I was still horny. Then I drove home. Maria didn't mind at all that I got home a little early.
I woke up the next morning and any grumpy feelings I had were gone. The point is that I had another amazing fun time with Jessica. Maria was cool with it all. In fact I talked to Maria about it all when I got home. I mentioned that my birthday was coming up next month. I asked her if she would be OK with me asking Jessica if she would like to join Maria and myself for a 3sum for my birthday? Maria said, "sure!". I texted Jessica and we have a date. So another amazing fun thing to look forward to! It seems like I've been having some good swinger karma recently. :-)
Monday, January 16, 2017
Thursday, January 12, 2017
Afterglow
So Mary, my Mystery Date friend just left the hotel room.
Earlier in the day things were iffy. She had issues with a sick kid and work she needed to get done and time. At one point she thought she wouldn't be able to get out tonight. But I think she wanted to meet me as much as I wanted to meet her and she decided we should go for it. We ended hanging out and chatting and fucking for about three hours.
It was fantastic!
She was totally cute. When she got out of her car she was wearing yoga pants and leather boots. She had a nice little petite body with long brown hair. When she said hello I detected an accent. I asked her about it and she told me she was from Mexico. I had no idea. I had never asked her about her background because that doesn't really matter to me. But I liked her accent. I thought it was sexy! I had no idea I was meeting a sexy Latina hot wife when we talked earlier.
I think it was one of those cases where we had emailed each other so much that we took one look at each other and knew that it was on. After she had been in the room for about 10 minutes she told me that she needed to rinse off. I told her that I did to so she asked me if I wanted to go first. I got in the shower and washed off quickly. I didn't even bother to get dressed when I got out. She took a look at me with a funny smile on her face and went off to the bathroom to get in the shower herself.
When she was done I went to take a peek at her when she was drying off. She had a very nice little body. She pulled out some fishnet stockings and a little lingerie thing out of a bag and put them on. She remembered me mentioning that I loved fishnet stockings! We were soon kissing and making out like teenagers. She took a second to do something that I loved. She called her husband and put him on speakerphone. She had told me that he was out of the country on a business trip. I loved the thought of him sitting in a hotel room far away listening to me fuck his lovely wife.
Mary asked me what position I wanted to fuck her in and I told her I would love it if she went on top. I lay down and she got on me reverse cowgirl. She had a really cute little ass and I could see my cock going in and out of her shaved and very wet pussy. Usually I have great self control and can last a long time. But the whole scene was so hot that I ended up coming in about 5 minutes. I felt bad about it and told her I was sorry but she told me she loved that. She loved it when she knew she was getting a guy all worked up to the point where he would cum like that! So no worries.
I was so worked up that it didn't take me long to get hard again anyway. She gave me head and it was fantastic. She seemed to have no gag reflex and loved to swallow my whole cock. She had asked me to bring my favorite toys. We ended playing a long time with the whips and crops and dildos as well. I had a great time whipping her ass and playing with her pussy. She loved it when I put the really huge thick dildo in her pussy and a bullet vibrator on her clit and told her to press her legs together. (Maria loves that also!)
I lasted much longer the second time. She loved it when I fucked her hard from behind and slapped her ass. I noticed that she would move her phone so her hubby could hear her. When I was fucking her from behind she was literally screaming with pleasure. Having been on the other end of the line in those situations I know that her husband was probably loving every second. Wondering just exactly what was going on? Picturing in his mind his lovely wife getting fucked by me...
After fucking twice we took a break and talked more. I ended up telling her about the MFA parties and she was VERY interested. She wanted to know all about them and was fascinated. She really wants to go to the next party she can with Maria and me. So hopefully she can join us in February? The couple we're meeting next weekend are REALY interested in it also. They might go as well!
When we were talking Mary also told me how much she loved to dance. She had on a techno mix and started to do a sexy dance. I got behind her and grabbed her hips and started to move with her. It was fun and really hot the way she rubbed her ass up and down over my cock. I soon started to get hard again. We danced for a while. Then she turned around and kissed me, grabbed my now very hard cock, and said "I want you to fuck me on the couch."
We moved over by the couch. She made sure her hubby was still on the phone and put it down on the side table. Then Mary got on her knees in front of me and started to suck my cock again. I grabbed her hair on each side of her head and started to fuck her face. She loved it. But she also wanted to get fucked more. She opened a condom wrapped and handed me the condom. I put it on and sat down on the couch.
She was very limber! First she rode me facing me. She seemed to really enjoy riding my cock and was soon screaming in pleasure again. She really liked it (and had asked me to do it) when I would squeeze her breasts really hard. It was a lot of fun to fuck her that way. Then she sort of surprised me by swinging her legs around so she could fuck me reverse cowgirl again. She told me to stretch out my legs. She leaned over and supported herself on my legs and started to ride me hard. I'm not sure any lady has ever fucked me like that before? Once again she was soon screaming out in pleasure. She seemed to really scream loud when she was really enjoying herself!
She rode me like that for about 10 minutes before I think she got tired. She looked over at the barstool chair and said, "why don't we try that now?" I liked the way Mary thought! She got on it and wiggled her ass at me and I was soon fucking her deep from behind again. It was a really good height to fuck her hard and deep. We fucked like that for a while and then we went off to the bedroom again. She got on the bed with her ass in the air and I knew what to do! I think she liked it when I would fuck her from behind. ;-)
I fucked her hard from behind but soon felt that point of no return once again. I was soon filling up the condom deep inside of her. She told me that she could feel my cock spurting into her and loved it. We rolled on our side and cuddled for a bit. I looked at the clock and realized that we had basically been playing for about two and a half hours.
She realized that she really couldn't stay much longer and we got dressed and chatted a little more. She told me she really was very interested in MFA and we should make plans. She seemed really nice and easy to get along with. I think we've made a new friend. :-)
I walked her to her car and gave her a hug and kiss and went back to the room.
I should be tired after cumming three times! But I feel like I'm walking on air. I've got that afterglow from having awesome fun sex with someone new. When this happens I get hyped! I can't go to sleep for hours. So a blog post and Steam games. Stay up late and have some fun. A great night!
and now I have Saturday night to look forward to. and Maria and I still have plans to meet the new couple we've been talking to next weekend. Life is good!
Earlier in the day things were iffy. She had issues with a sick kid and work she needed to get done and time. At one point she thought she wouldn't be able to get out tonight. But I think she wanted to meet me as much as I wanted to meet her and she decided we should go for it. We ended hanging out and chatting and fucking for about three hours.
It was fantastic!
She was totally cute. When she got out of her car she was wearing yoga pants and leather boots. She had a nice little petite body with long brown hair. When she said hello I detected an accent. I asked her about it and she told me she was from Mexico. I had no idea. I had never asked her about her background because that doesn't really matter to me. But I liked her accent. I thought it was sexy! I had no idea I was meeting a sexy Latina hot wife when we talked earlier.
I think it was one of those cases where we had emailed each other so much that we took one look at each other and knew that it was on. After she had been in the room for about 10 minutes she told me that she needed to rinse off. I told her that I did to so she asked me if I wanted to go first. I got in the shower and washed off quickly. I didn't even bother to get dressed when I got out. She took a look at me with a funny smile on her face and went off to the bathroom to get in the shower herself.
When she was done I went to take a peek at her when she was drying off. She had a very nice little body. She pulled out some fishnet stockings and a little lingerie thing out of a bag and put them on. She remembered me mentioning that I loved fishnet stockings! We were soon kissing and making out like teenagers. She took a second to do something that I loved. She called her husband and put him on speakerphone. She had told me that he was out of the country on a business trip. I loved the thought of him sitting in a hotel room far away listening to me fuck his lovely wife.
Mary asked me what position I wanted to fuck her in and I told her I would love it if she went on top. I lay down and she got on me reverse cowgirl. She had a really cute little ass and I could see my cock going in and out of her shaved and very wet pussy. Usually I have great self control and can last a long time. But the whole scene was so hot that I ended up coming in about 5 minutes. I felt bad about it and told her I was sorry but she told me she loved that. She loved it when she knew she was getting a guy all worked up to the point where he would cum like that! So no worries.
I was so worked up that it didn't take me long to get hard again anyway. She gave me head and it was fantastic. She seemed to have no gag reflex and loved to swallow my whole cock. She had asked me to bring my favorite toys. We ended playing a long time with the whips and crops and dildos as well. I had a great time whipping her ass and playing with her pussy. She loved it when I put the really huge thick dildo in her pussy and a bullet vibrator on her clit and told her to press her legs together. (Maria loves that also!)
I lasted much longer the second time. She loved it when I fucked her hard from behind and slapped her ass. I noticed that she would move her phone so her hubby could hear her. When I was fucking her from behind she was literally screaming with pleasure. Having been on the other end of the line in those situations I know that her husband was probably loving every second. Wondering just exactly what was going on? Picturing in his mind his lovely wife getting fucked by me...
After fucking twice we took a break and talked more. I ended up telling her about the MFA parties and she was VERY interested. She wanted to know all about them and was fascinated. She really wants to go to the next party she can with Maria and me. So hopefully she can join us in February? The couple we're meeting next weekend are REALY interested in it also. They might go as well!
When we were talking Mary also told me how much she loved to dance. She had on a techno mix and started to do a sexy dance. I got behind her and grabbed her hips and started to move with her. It was fun and really hot the way she rubbed her ass up and down over my cock. I soon started to get hard again. We danced for a while. Then she turned around and kissed me, grabbed my now very hard cock, and said "I want you to fuck me on the couch."
We moved over by the couch. She made sure her hubby was still on the phone and put it down on the side table. Then Mary got on her knees in front of me and started to suck my cock again. I grabbed her hair on each side of her head and started to fuck her face. She loved it. But she also wanted to get fucked more. She opened a condom wrapped and handed me the condom. I put it on and sat down on the couch.
She was very limber! First she rode me facing me. She seemed to really enjoy riding my cock and was soon screaming in pleasure again. She really liked it (and had asked me to do it) when I would squeeze her breasts really hard. It was a lot of fun to fuck her that way. Then she sort of surprised me by swinging her legs around so she could fuck me reverse cowgirl again. She told me to stretch out my legs. She leaned over and supported herself on my legs and started to ride me hard. I'm not sure any lady has ever fucked me like that before? Once again she was soon screaming out in pleasure. She seemed to really scream loud when she was really enjoying herself!
She rode me like that for about 10 minutes before I think she got tired. She looked over at the barstool chair and said, "why don't we try that now?" I liked the way Mary thought! She got on it and wiggled her ass at me and I was soon fucking her deep from behind again. It was a really good height to fuck her hard and deep. We fucked like that for a while and then we went off to the bedroom again. She got on the bed with her ass in the air and I knew what to do! I think she liked it when I would fuck her from behind. ;-)
I fucked her hard from behind but soon felt that point of no return once again. I was soon filling up the condom deep inside of her. She told me that she could feel my cock spurting into her and loved it. We rolled on our side and cuddled for a bit. I looked at the clock and realized that we had basically been playing for about two and a half hours.
She realized that she really couldn't stay much longer and we got dressed and chatted a little more. She told me she really was very interested in MFA and we should make plans. She seemed really nice and easy to get along with. I think we've made a new friend. :-)
I walked her to her car and gave her a hug and kiss and went back to the room.
I should be tired after cumming three times! But I feel like I'm walking on air. I've got that afterglow from having awesome fun sex with someone new. When this happens I get hyped! I can't go to sleep for hours. So a blog post and Steam games. Stay up late and have some fun. A great night!
and now I have Saturday night to look forward to. and Maria and I still have plans to meet the new couple we've been talking to next weekend. Life is good!
Wednesday, January 11, 2017
Mystery Date
So I have a date tomorrow night with Mary. I mentioned her in my last post.
I'm really excited about it but I also know it's a gamble to some degree. I'm trusting my instincts here. My B.S. detector. I think if this actually happens and we meet it's going to be amazing. But I still have some doubts. Sometimes I rate my potential hook ups by percentage. What chance is there of this actually happening? I'm putting this at about 85/90%. I'm really sure it's going to happen. But there's a small chance that things won't work out.
I've already reserved a hotel room. We're going to meet there. I'm going to check in and send her a message with the room number. But we've never met. I haven't even seen a face pic of her. All I've seen is her couples profile with her hubby on SLS. They have a bunch of pix posted of her body and a very nice profile. She's a brunette in her mid 40's (just a little younger than me) who is 5'2" (I like more petite ladies) and around 120 lbs. She and her hubby have gotten more into the BDSM scene than the two of us. They used to like to go to Exit in Chicago for their leather nights. They seem like a cool couple and she looks hot. They also have a bunch of certs, a few from people we know who say they they are a great couple.
As I said in my last post I've been talking to them/him/her for years. We were sending notes back and forth about a week ago and she told me that hubby was going to be out of town and strongly hinted that she was looking for some fun. I wrote back and asked her if she wanted to finally meet and she said "yes". Meeting quickly turned into renting a room.
I'm taking a bit of a crazy risk. I'll check in tomorrow at around 4:30 and send her the room number. She told me that she should be able to show up at around 5:30. The worst that happens is that I hang out for the evening in a nice hotel room and chill and play computer games and watch porn. The best that will happen is that all of the emails and plans Mary and I have made over the past few days will come true! I'm willing to take that chance. She'll should be able to tell her hubby a really fun story when he gets home. ;-)
I'm really excited about it but I also know it's a gamble to some degree. I'm trusting my instincts here. My B.S. detector. I think if this actually happens and we meet it's going to be amazing. But I still have some doubts. Sometimes I rate my potential hook ups by percentage. What chance is there of this actually happening? I'm putting this at about 85/90%. I'm really sure it's going to happen. But there's a small chance that things won't work out.
I've already reserved a hotel room. We're going to meet there. I'm going to check in and send her a message with the room number. But we've never met. I haven't even seen a face pic of her. All I've seen is her couples profile with her hubby on SLS. They have a bunch of pix posted of her body and a very nice profile. She's a brunette in her mid 40's (just a little younger than me) who is 5'2" (I like more petite ladies) and around 120 lbs. She and her hubby have gotten more into the BDSM scene than the two of us. They used to like to go to Exit in Chicago for their leather nights. They seem like a cool couple and she looks hot. They also have a bunch of certs, a few from people we know who say they they are a great couple.
As I said in my last post I've been talking to them/him/her for years. We were sending notes back and forth about a week ago and she told me that hubby was going to be out of town and strongly hinted that she was looking for some fun. I wrote back and asked her if she wanted to finally meet and she said "yes". Meeting quickly turned into renting a room.
I'm taking a bit of a crazy risk. I'll check in tomorrow at around 4:30 and send her the room number. She told me that she should be able to show up at around 5:30. The worst that happens is that I hang out for the evening in a nice hotel room and chill and play computer games and watch porn. The best that will happen is that all of the emails and plans Mary and I have made over the past few days will come true! I'm willing to take that chance. She'll should be able to tell her hubby a really fun story when he gets home. ;-)
Monday, January 9, 2017
Exciting expectations!
OK... I'm probably going to fuck myself here. Because I don't like to "brag" or talk about shit before it happens. I feel like it's bad luck. Bad swinger karma or something.
But I feel this post is more about that wonderful fun feeling of excitement you get when you've got some really fun "dates" lined up. It's one of the things I love about swinging/the lifestyle. Half of the fun I think is the expectation... the build up... the excitement of what is to come. This is one of the reasons I/we do this. I can't imagine a life where I didn't have things like this to look forward to...
I'm really excited about a few things coming up. All of a sudden it seems like I'm blessed!
First and foremost is the cruise in March. I was telling Maria tonight that our dance card is already getting fairly full. We've gotten some great notes from other couples who are also going on the cruise. It looks like we'll make a few new friends at least. We bought our plane tickets today to fly down to Ft. Lauderdale. It's happening! We also finally got the "confirmation" email with the reservation number. We can start booking our drink packages and day excursions. We want to go to Chichen Itza. Yes, there is the swinger/sex part of the cruise but we're also just looking forward to being on a cruise for the first time and doing some of the side trips. We're both history/culture geeks. We would rather go out and see the ancient pyramids than go to the nude dance party on the beach. (which is one of the other day excursion choices!)
Then there is that couple that we were going to meet at the party last Saturday. We really did feel bad about Maria still being sick and us not being able to make it. I sent them some more texts, apologized again, and set up another date for later in the month. I told them that we would go ahead and just rent a room and they could join us for the evening if they wanted. We also asked them if they would like it to just be the 4 of us or perhaps a few more people. They told us they would love to add a few more. So we're working on setting up a small party on the 21st. Most of all though we're looking forward to finally meeting this couple. We've been talking to them for about six months on SLS and they look like a lot of fun!
Then on Saturday night I have a one on one date set up with my ATF lady friend Jessica. We set it up a few weeks ago before all this other stuff went down. We're going to meet at our fave hotel and bang for hours like we always do. I meet her once every few months now. We always have a LOT of fun together. So I have that to look forward to as well! I still always sort of pinch myself every time we meet. Is this really happening? "I'm not worthy!"
Then I feel like something else just sort of dropped into my lap. These things seem to keep happening to me recently...
There is a couple I've been talking to on SLS for probably five years now. We've never met. But I've always loved their profile and pix. They are also a couple that usually plays together but also play apart. They're a "free profile" couple so, to be honest, I've had my doubts as to if they're real. They seem so hot. Too good to be true? But I've also noticed that they've gotten some recent certs from people that we know and trust. So I assume they really are real?
I was emailing them earlier this week. The lady half, Mary, told me that her hubby was going out of town for the week. She was thinking of going to a party on Tuesday night and did I want to join her there? I sent her an email back, a bit blunt perhaps, but sometimes I like to see how people will respond. I said, "I'm have to work late on Tuesday but I'm free on Thursday and Friday nights. Would you like to meet for a drink? It would be fantastic to finally meet you!"
She wrote back and said, "Sure!"
and then many emails were exchanged. It quickly became clear that she didn't want to meet for just a drink. She wanted to meet so that we could finally play. Or more to the point, have a drink or two, and then play!
So I have a hotel room reserved for Thursday night. I'm going to drive there after work and email her the room number. She's going to knock on the door, we're going to chat for a bit, and then hopefully play for a few hours. It all came together so quickly. Sometimes it seems like all you have to do is ask...
But I also know that this has been building up for months/years. This is often the hottest sex as well. That first time fun new energy. It should be a lot of fun!
and we'll see how it all actually goes down. In my experience if you make three plans if one happens it's normal, two happening is good luck, and if all three happen it's a miracle! Sometimes that's why I make a bunch of plans. You never know what's going to happen. Will the 21st work out? Will Jessica or myself get sick by Saturday night? Will Mary actually show up at the hotel room door? Will Maria and I have an amazing time on the cruise in March? So many hot and amazing things to look forward to!
But I feel this post is more about that wonderful fun feeling of excitement you get when you've got some really fun "dates" lined up. It's one of the things I love about swinging/the lifestyle. Half of the fun I think is the expectation... the build up... the excitement of what is to come. This is one of the reasons I/we do this. I can't imagine a life where I didn't have things like this to look forward to...
I'm really excited about a few things coming up. All of a sudden it seems like I'm blessed!
First and foremost is the cruise in March. I was telling Maria tonight that our dance card is already getting fairly full. We've gotten some great notes from other couples who are also going on the cruise. It looks like we'll make a few new friends at least. We bought our plane tickets today to fly down to Ft. Lauderdale. It's happening! We also finally got the "confirmation" email with the reservation number. We can start booking our drink packages and day excursions. We want to go to Chichen Itza. Yes, there is the swinger/sex part of the cruise but we're also just looking forward to being on a cruise for the first time and doing some of the side trips. We're both history/culture geeks. We would rather go out and see the ancient pyramids than go to the nude dance party on the beach. (which is one of the other day excursion choices!)
Then there is that couple that we were going to meet at the party last Saturday. We really did feel bad about Maria still being sick and us not being able to make it. I sent them some more texts, apologized again, and set up another date for later in the month. I told them that we would go ahead and just rent a room and they could join us for the evening if they wanted. We also asked them if they would like it to just be the 4 of us or perhaps a few more people. They told us they would love to add a few more. So we're working on setting up a small party on the 21st. Most of all though we're looking forward to finally meeting this couple. We've been talking to them for about six months on SLS and they look like a lot of fun!
Then on Saturday night I have a one on one date set up with my ATF lady friend Jessica. We set it up a few weeks ago before all this other stuff went down. We're going to meet at our fave hotel and bang for hours like we always do. I meet her once every few months now. We always have a LOT of fun together. So I have that to look forward to as well! I still always sort of pinch myself every time we meet. Is this really happening? "I'm not worthy!"
Then I feel like something else just sort of dropped into my lap. These things seem to keep happening to me recently...
There is a couple I've been talking to on SLS for probably five years now. We've never met. But I've always loved their profile and pix. They are also a couple that usually plays together but also play apart. They're a "free profile" couple so, to be honest, I've had my doubts as to if they're real. They seem so hot. Too good to be true? But I've also noticed that they've gotten some recent certs from people that we know and trust. So I assume they really are real?
I was emailing them earlier this week. The lady half, Mary, told me that her hubby was going out of town for the week. She was thinking of going to a party on Tuesday night and did I want to join her there? I sent her an email back, a bit blunt perhaps, but sometimes I like to see how people will respond. I said, "I'm have to work late on Tuesday but I'm free on Thursday and Friday nights. Would you like to meet for a drink? It would be fantastic to finally meet you!"
She wrote back and said, "Sure!"
and then many emails were exchanged. It quickly became clear that she didn't want to meet for just a drink. She wanted to meet so that we could finally play. Or more to the point, have a drink or two, and then play!
So I have a hotel room reserved for Thursday night. I'm going to drive there after work and email her the room number. She's going to knock on the door, we're going to chat for a bit, and then hopefully play for a few hours. It all came together so quickly. Sometimes it seems like all you have to do is ask...
But I also know that this has been building up for months/years. This is often the hottest sex as well. That first time fun new energy. It should be a lot of fun!
and we'll see how it all actually goes down. In my experience if you make three plans if one happens it's normal, two happening is good luck, and if all three happen it's a miracle! Sometimes that's why I make a bunch of plans. You never know what's going to happen. Will the 21st work out? Will Jessica or myself get sick by Saturday night? Will Mary actually show up at the hotel room door? Will Maria and I have an amazing time on the cruise in March? So many hot and amazing things to look forward to!
Saturday, January 7, 2017
Sick
So after the fun we had with Marcus at the MFA party we wanted to meet him again. He texted us however to let us know that he was going to be moving out of town right after the New Year. Darn it. We meet a really great guy and he's moving away!
We really wanted to get together with him before he left. We set up a date for the Friday night before New Years Eve. The problem however, was that Maria had a bad head cold. We assumed it would go away before then. We had about a week to go.
But it didn't get better. Maria was feeling worse every day instead of feeling better.
She went to urgent care when she thought she probably had a sinus infection because she was feeling so bad. The doctor looked at her and said, "No, you don't have a sinus infection. You just have a really bad old fashioned head cold. There's a bad one that's going around that seems to last for two or three weeks."
We tried to reschedule for Sunday, New Years Day. But when it came Maria still felt terrible. We had to cancel. It sucked. Maria was looking forward it and Marcus was moving away. Hopefully we'll be able to get together someday down the road. But it seemed like a lost opportunity.
I was feeling a little bummed and frustrated and knew that if I was going to have any fun it would be on my own. I looked at SLS at the Hot Dates. I noticed that on Monday an old friend was putting together a GB party and was looking for guys. I wrote him a note and we were soon texting. He told me that a "hot Asian" girl would be there. He sent a pic and she did look hot! This could be fun! The party was also at a hotel that was a 15 minute drive away. Super easy to get to. It made sense to go ahead and check it out. When I told Maria about it she understood why I wanted to go out and have some fun. I still think I'm AMAZINGLY lucky that I'm part of a couple where we play mostly together but also apart. Maria is amazing and wonderful in that regard. and I LOVE it when she goes out and plays on her own. ;-)
I ended up going and it was a fantastic night! There were three ladies there and I ended up playing with all of them. The "hot Asian" girl, Abbie, was indeed totally hot. She was in her mid 20's with a bunch of tattoos, very pretty, and just a lot of fun! She was also Korean for what it matters. She was thin but has an amazing ass and incredible perky breasts with very nice nipples. She also had a VERY tight pussy and knew how to use her kegels. ;-)
As sometimes happens at parties with a super hottie the other ladies get ignored. I think I was one of just 3 or 4 guys who paid any attention at all to the other ladies. Yes, I like sexy Korean ladies, but I also like sexy curvy Latino ladies. I think the other ladies appreciated that I came to the party and gave them some attention as well.
But I still wanted to do something fun with Maria. I remember at one point during the party getting a blow job from the hot curvy Latino lady and thinking to myself how much I wished Maria had been able to come to the party with me... Thinking of my lovely wife while having group sex with strangers. Is that weird/romantic?!
The same guy who put together the GB party was putting together another party for tonight. This party was for couples, a few bi ladies, and a few guys. I looked at who was coming and it looked like a great group. Last night I talked to Maria and asked her how she was doing. She said she was feeling a lot better. We told the host that we were interested in coming but we wanted to sleep on it and see how Maria was feeling in the morning.
When she woke up in the morning she felt a lot better! She was hardly stuffy at all. She told me that she really wanted to go to the party so we could finally get out and have some fun together. I texted the host and let him know.
Now... there's this couple on SLS that we've been wanting to meet for months. We've been sending them notes back and forth. They look like they could be a lot of fun. The only "issue" is that they're young. In their late 20's, and usually Maria prefers to play with more mature people but... they seem awesome. He's an AA gentleman who looks a lot like one of the dudes in De La Soul and she's a white lady who has a beautiful curvy body. Maria and I have said over the years that it's hard to find ladies with bodies that are similar to hers. Petit but also very curvy. This lady has a body like that. Plus she's also super pretty and the two of them seem very nice.
I sent them a note. Asking if by any chance they were free tonight and could meet us at the party. They wrote back and said "Yes"! We started texting each other back and forth.
I also had band practice during the day. So I drove off to the city as all of this was starting to go down. They were texting me hot pix while I was driving down the highway. I didn't look at all! But it was awesome to see all the pix when I parked. This was going to be a fun night! They looked like an amazing couple. I sent them a bunch of pix of Maria and went off to practice for a few hours.
Then I picked up some food at our fave Submarine place in the city and drove home. When I got home Maria was taking a nap. It was about 4:30 and she was still asleep when it hit me that I was really tired as well. We didn't need to leave until about 8. I figured I would take a nap as well. I went upstairs and got into bed as quiet as I could.
We both crashed until about 5:30. We got up and I asked Maria how she was feeling. When she answered I could tell right away that it wasn't good. That super stuffy icky feeling voice. Oh no...
She said that she was starting to feel really awful again. Crap. We gave it some time but we ended up having to cancel. We felt terrible telling both the host and our new friends that we couldn't make it.
On the other hand we know the host has parties almost every weekend. We can wait till Maria feels better. We sent a note to the hot couple asking them to forgive us and letting them know they were #1 on our list. We're planning on meeting them in a few weeks when we're all free. We'll rent a room and just play for hours. Something to look forward to. But this does sort of suck. Maria has had about the worst cold ever. The doc told her that it could last 2-3 weeks and he was right. Fuck. I hope she gets better soon for so many reasons. Mainly because I want her to feel better!
then hopefully we can plan some more fun...
We really wanted to get together with him before he left. We set up a date for the Friday night before New Years Eve. The problem however, was that Maria had a bad head cold. We assumed it would go away before then. We had about a week to go.
But it didn't get better. Maria was feeling worse every day instead of feeling better.
She went to urgent care when she thought she probably had a sinus infection because she was feeling so bad. The doctor looked at her and said, "No, you don't have a sinus infection. You just have a really bad old fashioned head cold. There's a bad one that's going around that seems to last for two or three weeks."
We tried to reschedule for Sunday, New Years Day. But when it came Maria still felt terrible. We had to cancel. It sucked. Maria was looking forward it and Marcus was moving away. Hopefully we'll be able to get together someday down the road. But it seemed like a lost opportunity.
I was feeling a little bummed and frustrated and knew that if I was going to have any fun it would be on my own. I looked at SLS at the Hot Dates. I noticed that on Monday an old friend was putting together a GB party and was looking for guys. I wrote him a note and we were soon texting. He told me that a "hot Asian" girl would be there. He sent a pic and she did look hot! This could be fun! The party was also at a hotel that was a 15 minute drive away. Super easy to get to. It made sense to go ahead and check it out. When I told Maria about it she understood why I wanted to go out and have some fun. I still think I'm AMAZINGLY lucky that I'm part of a couple where we play mostly together but also apart. Maria is amazing and wonderful in that regard. and I LOVE it when she goes out and plays on her own. ;-)
I ended up going and it was a fantastic night! There were three ladies there and I ended up playing with all of them. The "hot Asian" girl, Abbie, was indeed totally hot. She was in her mid 20's with a bunch of tattoos, very pretty, and just a lot of fun! She was also Korean for what it matters. She was thin but has an amazing ass and incredible perky breasts with very nice nipples. She also had a VERY tight pussy and knew how to use her kegels. ;-)
As sometimes happens at parties with a super hottie the other ladies get ignored. I think I was one of just 3 or 4 guys who paid any attention at all to the other ladies. Yes, I like sexy Korean ladies, but I also like sexy curvy Latino ladies. I think the other ladies appreciated that I came to the party and gave them some attention as well.
But I still wanted to do something fun with Maria. I remember at one point during the party getting a blow job from the hot curvy Latino lady and thinking to myself how much I wished Maria had been able to come to the party with me... Thinking of my lovely wife while having group sex with strangers. Is that weird/romantic?!
The same guy who put together the GB party was putting together another party for tonight. This party was for couples, a few bi ladies, and a few guys. I looked at who was coming and it looked like a great group. Last night I talked to Maria and asked her how she was doing. She said she was feeling a lot better. We told the host that we were interested in coming but we wanted to sleep on it and see how Maria was feeling in the morning.
When she woke up in the morning she felt a lot better! She was hardly stuffy at all. She told me that she really wanted to go to the party so we could finally get out and have some fun together. I texted the host and let him know.
Now... there's this couple on SLS that we've been wanting to meet for months. We've been sending them notes back and forth. They look like they could be a lot of fun. The only "issue" is that they're young. In their late 20's, and usually Maria prefers to play with more mature people but... they seem awesome. He's an AA gentleman who looks a lot like one of the dudes in De La Soul and she's a white lady who has a beautiful curvy body. Maria and I have said over the years that it's hard to find ladies with bodies that are similar to hers. Petit but also very curvy. This lady has a body like that. Plus she's also super pretty and the two of them seem very nice.
I sent them a note. Asking if by any chance they were free tonight and could meet us at the party. They wrote back and said "Yes"! We started texting each other back and forth.
I also had band practice during the day. So I drove off to the city as all of this was starting to go down. They were texting me hot pix while I was driving down the highway. I didn't look at all! But it was awesome to see all the pix when I parked. This was going to be a fun night! They looked like an amazing couple. I sent them a bunch of pix of Maria and went off to practice for a few hours.
Then I picked up some food at our fave Submarine place in the city and drove home. When I got home Maria was taking a nap. It was about 4:30 and she was still asleep when it hit me that I was really tired as well. We didn't need to leave until about 8. I figured I would take a nap as well. I went upstairs and got into bed as quiet as I could.
We both crashed until about 5:30. We got up and I asked Maria how she was feeling. When she answered I could tell right away that it wasn't good. That super stuffy icky feeling voice. Oh no...
She said that she was starting to feel really awful again. Crap. We gave it some time but we ended up having to cancel. We felt terrible telling both the host and our new friends that we couldn't make it.
On the other hand we know the host has parties almost every weekend. We can wait till Maria feels better. We sent a note to the hot couple asking them to forgive us and letting them know they were #1 on our list. We're planning on meeting them in a few weeks when we're all free. We'll rent a room and just play for hours. Something to look forward to. But this does sort of suck. Maria has had about the worst cold ever. The doc told her that it could last 2-3 weeks and he was right. Fuck. I hope she gets better soon for so many reasons. Mainly because I want her to feel better!
then hopefully we can plan some more fun...
Thursday, January 5, 2017
Oatmeal
So Maria and I have this weird tradition. If we go on a "swinger" date and things go well we come home and make oatmeal in the crockpot. We know when we wake up the morning after, we're going to be hungry, and ready to have something solid and yummy and healthy. It's turned into sort of a code phrase for us. If we're driving home after some fun times one of us will say, "shall I make a batch of oatmeal?", and we'll giggle to ourselves.
The recipe is super simple
1 cup of steel cut oatmeal (get the good stuff)
4 cups of water
Put it in the crock pot and cook on a low temp for 8-10 hours. Perfect for putting together after a night out and it'll be ready in the morning when you wake up.
We made oatmeal last weekend. ;-)
A LOT of guys send us messages on the swinger website we're on. SLS. I often tell them that if they want to meet us just go to an MFA party. 99% of the guys when we tell them that bail.
Well this guy sent us a note on SLS, Marcus. He claimed to be an ex athlete from England. He was a tall handsome black gentlemen (if he's from England is he an AA?) who looked to have a massive thick cock. All of his notes to us were polite and well written. We told him about the MFA party and he seemed very interested. We exchanged phone numbers so we could text. It turned out that the last male ticket had been sold. But I texted my friend Justin at MFA and he was really cool about it. He told me that he could open up a spot for Marcus for an hour. If he was serious and wanted to sign up he could come.
He did it.
We got to the party about an hour before the festivities were to begin. A little time to be social before the fun started. Marcus was nowhere to be seen. I thought he would flake out like so many other single guys seem to do. I texted him to see what was up. He texted back that he was on the way and would be there soon. Sure enough, a few minutes later a very large black gentleman walked through the door. He recognized us and came to say hello and give Maria a hug.
He was a great guy. Easy to talk to and he really did have a nice English accent. He was also huge. I couldn't wait to see him play with Maria. But I also have to admit, I was a little worried how he would do at his first MFA party? Would he only play with Maria? It seemed like he was so into her that I was worried that he would be pushy with her. It turned out that I had nothing to worry about. He was awesome. A true gentleman. He was really good about playing with Maria but also playing with the other women as well. I think he played with every woman there.
He also drive Maria crazy when he fucked her with his huge cock. He was a few inches longer than me and REALLY thick. Like a Coke can. I got to do something I haven't been able to do in a long time. After he fucked Maria for a long time he pulled out and I jumped right in. When I got my cock inside of Maria I could tell that she was totally stretched out. Usually she is so tight and snug. But I could feel how the walls of her pussy were stretched out from his big cock. It was fucking HOT!
We had a fantastic time. Marcus was awesome. A bunch of other guys fucked Maria as well who had really big cocks. She had an amazing night.
So when we got home we made up a batch of Oatmeal!
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