So... first of all. I had an amazing 3sum tonight! With my friend J from MFA and Maggie who I haven't seen in months. We achieved the ultimate goal. A DP! They make it look so easy in the porn videos but it's not so easy in real life. But we did it and it was fantastic! We did the DP for at least 10 or 15 minutes. It was fucking hot. J came in her pussy. I pulled out of her ass. Cleaned up and switched condoms, fucked her in her pussy, and then gave her a huge facial.
When we were all basking in the afterglow and chatting a bit I brought up a recent thought.
I mentioned that while we had a nice 4sum a few weekends ago in Minneapolis I had a light bulb moment. A swinger epiphany.
Over the past few years Maria and I have had several "unfortunate" meetings with other couples. We would meet for drinks. The conversation would be great. Everything would seem to be going well. Then we would get behind closed doors, as they say, and the clothes would come off. We would start to kiss and lick and suck. My cock would get hard. Julia would get horny and ready to fuck. The other lady would see my hard cock and be into it, we would start to play. I would start to fuck the other lady, she would be moaning and groaning and cumming, and the guy in the other couple would wilt...
Maria would get frustrated. It seemed to happen over and over again that I would have fun with the other lady, the other lady would have fun with me, but Maria would be stuck with a guy who just couldn't get it up. Maria would always blame herself. It had to be because she was fat. Unattractive. I would always tell her she was crazy but she didn't believe me.
Then we got together with this couple in Minneapolis. We had a lot of fun with them but it "bordered" on being the same issue. The other guy kept on saying things like, "damn, you get hard and stay hard for hours it seems. what's up with that?!" and "you just keep on going and going. damn!" He had "issues" for a bit but eventually got very hard and fucked Maria for a nice long time so it ended up being a very nice evening for everyone.
but afterwords it hit me... I've always said that Maria is amazing. I've fucked a lot of women and I think she's one end of the bell curve. She's in the 1%. Just amazing to play with. One of my problems is that I've always been slightly insecure. But after going to many GBs over the years I know that I have a really nice big cock. I also know that I have amazing endurance at this point. I'm like the energizer bunny. I can keep going and going and going. I am also a heavy cummer. So it hit me. I'm kind of amazing also. Not the 1% but certainly in the top 5%. Maria and I make quite a team. Perhaps that's why when we fuck each other the sex is so amazing?!
So it hit me that I bet in at least a few of the times we've had "issues" with other couples it wasn't Maria that was the "problem". It was me. It was my big hard cock that stays hard for a long long time. It was the fact that I can fuck for hours and not cum. The other guy would look over and have a moment of insecurity and that was that. Boner kill for him. Game over. What we seem to forget, and I totally wasn't thinking about this, was that men are totally insecure. Especially when it comes to their cock size and performance issues. Why do you think you see all those commercials for Viagra every night?
So I mentioned this thought to J and Maggie. J cracked up and said he knew exactly what I was talking about! He had the same sort of experience and his wife had gotten frustrated meeting other swinging couples because of the same thing. He had figured it out a lot faster than me! He gave me some great advice. The next time we meet a couple. I should keep my clothes on and just watch. Let the other guy have fun with Maria and his wife and then jump in later. That actually sounds like fun to me. Why didn't I think of that?!
Maria is actually out of town for a few days. I miss her a lot. I can't wait to tell her this story! She knows I went out tonight but we weren't able to really talk about what happened...
Monday, July 18, 2016
Saturday, July 9, 2016
Morning sex
I love sex in the morning. I know I might have stinky breath but I always wake up horny and there's something about having sex when you're half asleep and waking up. I've always thought it was the best way to start the day! The only "problem" is that I can only have morning sex with Maria. One of her only "rules" is that if I go out on my own that I come home for the night and sleep with her. She doesn't like the idea of me going off and spending the night with another lady and then waking up in the morning and playing some more. That's really one of her only limits. I can deal with that!
A few weeks ago my fave lady friend was texting me. Her hubby was going to be out of town for a few days. She wanted to know if I would like to come over and visit her. We wouldn't have to pay for a hotel room. We could play together in her own bed. The problem was that her husband was going to be gone when I had some family coming into town. My niece was graduating from High School so I had a lot of family stuff going on.
We started texting back and forth trying to figure out when we could meet. Thursday wouldn't work because my mother was going to be staying with us that night. She really wanted to meet on Saturday night but Maria and I had an invitation to another party that night. I asked her about Friday but she already had plans with another mutual friend of ours to get together. The funny thing about all of this was that Maria was looking at our calendar and helping me. When something wouldn't work out she was the one saying, "darn it, what about Wed night?" I thought about that later. How funny and crazy that would seem to most people. My wife helping me figure out a good time to meet another lady!
It seemed like nothing was going to work. We had conflicts every evening. I decided to chill for a bit and just let it go. Then I had one of those light bulb moments. Could we meet early on Saturday morning? Morning sex! I sent her a text and asked her about it. She really liked the idea and it would work for her. Perfect! I could probably get there and back before the kids even woke up. Maria thought it was a great idea because of that. A little more discreet. We were going to meet at 9am. Her only request was that I take her out to a breakfast place after we played. That was fine with me. I love a good breakfast place!
I was really looking forward to seeing her again and thought the whole idea was so hot. I was finally going to have morning sex with another lady.
We texted a few more times and made our plan. I had been to her place once before so I remembered where her bedroom was. She would leave the backdoor open in the morning. I would park. Go in the backdoor, and she would be waiting for me in her bed. Wow... sort of one of my all time fantasies coming true.
The big day finally came. It had been a busy week. I usually like to sleep in on Saturdays but I was more than willing to set my alarm that day. It really wasn't a big deal. I woke up the time I usually get up to go to work. I jumped in the shower and got dressed while Maria slept some more. I gave her a kiss goodbye and she said, "have fun!"
It took me about a half an hour to get to her place. I pulled in her driveway and took a deep breath. I walked to her backdoor and turned the knob. It was open... I quietly walked in, turned the corner, and went down the hallway to her room. Her bedroom door was open and she was waiting for me in her bed with a smile on her face. It looked like she was naked. I said "Hello!" and started to take off my clothes and put them in a pile in the corner of her room. I was soon naked and crawled into bed with her.
She had a huge smile on her face and welcomed me into her bed. She told me that she was really tired because our mutual friend had kept her up until 3 in the morning the night before. But she was really happy that I had made it.
She was naked underneath the covers. I spooned up to her from behind and started to rub my hands over her body. She felt nice and toasty warm and soft and sexy. I started to kiss her neck and she moaned. I felt around her ass and slid my hands between her legs. Her pussy was soaked. She was already very wet and excited. I put one of my fingers inside of her and she moaned even loader. She turned her head and we started to kiss.
I started to kiss her neck some more while we spooned and I ran my hands across her body. Then I slid my cock between her legs and started to slide back and forth between her now very wet pussy lips. I would rub the head of my cock against her clit and it would drive the two of us crazy. A very hot tease. I think I made her cum just from that.
Then rest is a bit of a blur. At one point she got our her favorite dildo, sat on it, and then leaned over and started to give me head. That was amazing... I fucked her for a long time while she was bent over with her ass in the air. We had talked about doing some anal play. At one point she handed me a box of medical gloves and lube. I knew what to do! ;-)
While my cock was still inside of her I put on one of the gloves and then put some lube on her ass. Then I put some lube on one of the fingers and slowly started to slide it in her while I was fucking her. She started to cum hard almost right away. It was totally hot. I tried to last as long as I could but I didn't last much longer. She was gripping my cock so hard when she was cumming. I could also feel her ass clenching around my finger ever time she came. After a few more minutes of this I started to cum hard. I usually like to pull out and cover her with cum but this time I stayed inside and filled the condom. I could feel her cumming while I was cumming. It was totally hot.
We cuddled for a bit and talked. I told her I was happy to go for another round but I could also understand if she wanted to go back to sleep. I knew she had been up late with our friend the night before. I also reminded her about breakfast. Totally up to her. She decided that she probably should go back to sleep. She told me that last cum had turned her into jelly. :-)
I got dressed and after a kiss goodbye I was out the back door. I had been there for about an hour and we had pretty much played from the moment I got there. It had been AWESOME! She sent me a text at about 2 that afternoon of her nude in bed. She was just getting up! Nice...
I got home. Went to a family dinner/function/event later that night. Then Maria and I snuck out at around 7:30 and went off to a swinger hotel party. But that's another story! lol
A few weeks ago my fave lady friend was texting me. Her hubby was going to be out of town for a few days. She wanted to know if I would like to come over and visit her. We wouldn't have to pay for a hotel room. We could play together in her own bed. The problem was that her husband was going to be gone when I had some family coming into town. My niece was graduating from High School so I had a lot of family stuff going on.
We started texting back and forth trying to figure out when we could meet. Thursday wouldn't work because my mother was going to be staying with us that night. She really wanted to meet on Saturday night but Maria and I had an invitation to another party that night. I asked her about Friday but she already had plans with another mutual friend of ours to get together. The funny thing about all of this was that Maria was looking at our calendar and helping me. When something wouldn't work out she was the one saying, "darn it, what about Wed night?" I thought about that later. How funny and crazy that would seem to most people. My wife helping me figure out a good time to meet another lady!
It seemed like nothing was going to work. We had conflicts every evening. I decided to chill for a bit and just let it go. Then I had one of those light bulb moments. Could we meet early on Saturday morning? Morning sex! I sent her a text and asked her about it. She really liked the idea and it would work for her. Perfect! I could probably get there and back before the kids even woke up. Maria thought it was a great idea because of that. A little more discreet. We were going to meet at 9am. Her only request was that I take her out to a breakfast place after we played. That was fine with me. I love a good breakfast place!
I was really looking forward to seeing her again and thought the whole idea was so hot. I was finally going to have morning sex with another lady.
We texted a few more times and made our plan. I had been to her place once before so I remembered where her bedroom was. She would leave the backdoor open in the morning. I would park. Go in the backdoor, and she would be waiting for me in her bed. Wow... sort of one of my all time fantasies coming true.
The big day finally came. It had been a busy week. I usually like to sleep in on Saturdays but I was more than willing to set my alarm that day. It really wasn't a big deal. I woke up the time I usually get up to go to work. I jumped in the shower and got dressed while Maria slept some more. I gave her a kiss goodbye and she said, "have fun!"
It took me about a half an hour to get to her place. I pulled in her driveway and took a deep breath. I walked to her backdoor and turned the knob. It was open... I quietly walked in, turned the corner, and went down the hallway to her room. Her bedroom door was open and she was waiting for me in her bed with a smile on her face. It looked like she was naked. I said "Hello!" and started to take off my clothes and put them in a pile in the corner of her room. I was soon naked and crawled into bed with her.
She had a huge smile on her face and welcomed me into her bed. She told me that she was really tired because our mutual friend had kept her up until 3 in the morning the night before. But she was really happy that I had made it.
She was naked underneath the covers. I spooned up to her from behind and started to rub my hands over her body. She felt nice and toasty warm and soft and sexy. I started to kiss her neck and she moaned. I felt around her ass and slid my hands between her legs. Her pussy was soaked. She was already very wet and excited. I put one of my fingers inside of her and she moaned even loader. She turned her head and we started to kiss.
I started to kiss her neck some more while we spooned and I ran my hands across her body. Then I slid my cock between her legs and started to slide back and forth between her now very wet pussy lips. I would rub the head of my cock against her clit and it would drive the two of us crazy. A very hot tease. I think I made her cum just from that.
Then rest is a bit of a blur. At one point she got our her favorite dildo, sat on it, and then leaned over and started to give me head. That was amazing... I fucked her for a long time while she was bent over with her ass in the air. We had talked about doing some anal play. At one point she handed me a box of medical gloves and lube. I knew what to do! ;-)
While my cock was still inside of her I put on one of the gloves and then put some lube on her ass. Then I put some lube on one of the fingers and slowly started to slide it in her while I was fucking her. She started to cum hard almost right away. It was totally hot. I tried to last as long as I could but I didn't last much longer. She was gripping my cock so hard when she was cumming. I could also feel her ass clenching around my finger ever time she came. After a few more minutes of this I started to cum hard. I usually like to pull out and cover her with cum but this time I stayed inside and filled the condom. I could feel her cumming while I was cumming. It was totally hot.
We cuddled for a bit and talked. I told her I was happy to go for another round but I could also understand if she wanted to go back to sleep. I knew she had been up late with our friend the night before. I also reminded her about breakfast. Totally up to her. She decided that she probably should go back to sleep. She told me that last cum had turned her into jelly. :-)
I got dressed and after a kiss goodbye I was out the back door. I had been there for about an hour and we had pretty much played from the moment I got there. It had been AWESOME! She sent me a text at about 2 that afternoon of her nude in bed. She was just getting up! Nice...
I got home. Went to a family dinner/function/event later that night. Then Maria and I snuck out at around 7:30 and went off to a swinger hotel party. But that's another story! lol
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