Saturday, January 27, 2018

Consent at GB parties

The whole #MeToo movement has been huge recently. I can't help but think about it in my own life. Have I had my own MeToo moments as a guy? I really hope not? I really don't think so? But I also am aware that I have my own perception of things. I know that to every encounter there are two sides to the story. I had a situation recently that made me think about this and how I handled it all.

My lovely wife Maria and I went to our fave GB party recently. A bunch of our old friends were there but there were a bunch of new people. One of the ladies who was going to participate was new and there for the first time. When we got to the party I looked around and spotted her. She looked really cute to me. I always like to say hello to the new folks so I went over and introduced myself. She said that her name was Kate.

She was next to a guy that I didn't recognize and I assumed he was her husband. I said hello. Yes, he was the husband. I asked them if they were swingers and involved in the lifestyle. The husband said that this party was their first time. Wow. I was stunned and told them so. I thought in my mind, "wow, you're diving right into the deep end of the pool.", but I didn't say that out loud. Instead I paused for a second or two and it hit me and I said, "My wife and I have been doing this sort of stuff for a long time. Thinking about it, I've gotta say that you couldn't be in a better place. This is a great party. The women are respected and the guys pay attention to their limits. There are the security staff watching what's going on and making sure everyone follows the rules. You're going to have a fantastic time tonight!"

But I could tell that Kate was really nervous. The body language. You could just tell that it was all a bit much for her.

The party started and the ladies all went to the playroom. When I got there I noticed that Kate wasn't there. Maria soon started to have a great time on the other hand!

Maria has amazing large breasts as I think I may have mentioned in the past a few times. 38G at the moment but she's been losing a lot of weight. (That's another post.) Because of her neck issues we have to be careful. She got rear ended about a month ago and it messed her up. Her neck in particular. She wasn't even sure she would be able to go. I thought about it. What was the thing that would most mess up her neck? Blow jobs. So I talked to her about it. Perhaps she might go but put in as a limit for this party that she would only be available to fuck. No oral. She liked that idea. On the way there I was thinking about it. Maybe guys if they couldn't get a BJ from her would want to fuck her breasts? It turns out that's exactly what happened. There were a couple of guys who really got into fucking her breasts and then cumming all over her breasts and face. I loved it of course!

It was a great party. I ended up playing with every single lady that was there. But I also kept my eye out for Kate. She didn't go down at the beginning of the party with the other ladies. Eventually she came down with her husband and the two of them sat on one of the couches together and just watched for a long time. I think it helped that it was a really good party and all of the ladies were having a really fun time. Eventually Kate got up the nerve and went down on one of the play mats. She was immediately surrounded by guys.

It was also later in the party at the point and a bunch of the guys had already gotten worn out. I had been pacing myself and hadn't cum yet. I had also spent a bunch of time just watching Maria. I love just watching her get fucked by guy after guy after guy. I played with the other ladies and looked over at Kate once in a while. She was still surrounded. Eventually however more guys were done for the night. When I looked over after a while more Kate was on her back with her legs together with her head in her husband's lap. Alone. She looked tired and content and well fucked. But I still wanted to play with her.

I went over to her and said, "Hello! Are you done for the night? Or do you mind if I put on a condom?"

I really thought that when I said it that way it could give her a very easy out. She could easily say that she had enough or was tired or whatever. Instead she said, "Yes, please do." Then she spread her legs.

I put on the condom and fucked her. I must admit I didn't last long. I had been teasing myself and playing with all of the other ladies for hours at this point. It seemed like she liked my nice long cock and she started to cum almost right away herself as well. That's all it took and I started to get that feeling of the point of no return. I pulled out and pulled off the condom and took a few steps over towards Maria who was kneeling and watching us. I came all over her breasts. It was a huge load.

On the way home Maria and I talked about the night as we often do. She mentioned that she heard that Kate had been so nervous that evidently she threw up before coming down to the party and was crying. OMG. I had no idea. I wondered out loud if I should feel bad for having sex with her? Was she doing something she didn't want to do? But then Maria pointed out what I said to her. She told me she had heard me ask her if I could play with her. She told me she thought the way I asked her was perfect. I had been very polite about it and she was sort of proud of me how I handled it all. Once again I had no idea. I was just acting the way I try to always act at the parties. A polite perv!

We were in such a good mood when we got home that Maria let me fuck her in the ass. Something we haven't done in a long time. It was an awesome night!