I think long ago I wrote a blog post about single bi ladies and our frustrations with them. How we would get to know one. Then after having a lot of fun she would get a new boyfriend and disappear. How we could understand in a way how it could be awkward with her new lover. "Hey, there's this couple that I like to get together with and fuck."
Single bi ladies are the holy grail in swinging. Unicorns. After going through the get to know you, have fun once or twice, then break things off because of new boyfriend we got frustrated. For years we didn't bother looking. Guys were easier. Couples a little harder.
Then we got older. In some ways I feel stupid (like usual in these situations) that it took me/us so long to figure out that bi ladies who are a little older are different than bi ladies in their 20's. Most ladies in their 20's are looking for a "relationship". Older women (in general of course) are more mature and self actualized. They have something already whether it be a relationship or a happy single life. They know what they want.
Case in point is our friend Jill. We had an AMAZING 3sum with her last weekend. I hope to write that up as a story soon. She is our age. She's a single bi lady. She was telling us that she would be happy to be in a long term relationship with a guy again but he would have to understand right off the bat that she has friends that she plays with. That those friends are important to her and she loves having sex with multiple people and that isn't going to change. She wouldn't put up with anything less.
Just an observation but I think in general it's true. So now we don't mind meeting ladies for 3sums. We know that they're much less likely to flake out on us. This is a good thing! lol
