Who is our anonymous admirer?

btw...  one swinger secret/rule if you're a beginner is to set up a private email account just for your swinger communications. It's so easy to set up a free email account at gmail or whatever these days. Set up an account just for your swinger stuff and keep it separate from your real life emails.

So anyway, yesterday I checked our good old hotmail account that we've had for about 20 years now. I had an email from LifestyleLounge, one of the swinger websites. We let our account lapse on LL (as they call it) because, to be honest, we have had a lot more luck finding people on SwingLifeStyle. SLS. But we've always liked LL more than SLS in terms of web design. It's a nicer site with better features. But it also seems that it's the site of the young and beautiful and skinny and hot swingers. Lots of 20 somethings who want to go out dancing all night at the next Meet & Greet. Not really our scene. 

So I got an email from LL saying that an anonymous donor had given us a free lifetime membership to the site. What? Really? I logged into the site for the first time in a couple of years and it looks legit. It looks like someone gave us a free membership. Wow. Whoever you are out there if you're reading this. Thank you!

So now I'm looking at all the young and skinny and hot couples. It will be nice to be on the site again. I always really liked their "booty call" page and the forums. On the booty call page couples and singles put up a post/ad if they're particularly horny that day and want to fuck. It's a great way to be a little more spontaneous. There have been a few times when we would see a booty call from a couple that we had played with in the past. We would write them a note and end up having fun that night! 

One of the other things we've had to learn over the years is that you have no idea what turns on other people out there. We've had situations where we've gone to the swinger clubs and a hot young skinny couple have approached us because they get totally turned on by older curvier mature couples. So you never know.

I think what I'll do with LL is see who writes to us. This is something I've been doing more and more on the swinger websites. I don't send out that first message. I wait to see what couples send us a message first. Then I know that they are perhaps interested in us. They are the ones making the effort to reach out to us. It seems like we have more luck that way. We also aren't looking that hard right now as we have some great friends we've been playing with. So if an amazing couple or single or opportunity presents itself we're happy to think about it. But we're not in the situation right now of sending out a bunch of notes to couples/people we think are hot and seeing who responds.

Anyway, thank you once again anonymous admirer whoever you are. Maria and I were trying to figure it out last night. We have a few suspects. Kind of a fun mystery. :-)