We went on another swinger cruise last April. Once again we had a super fun amazing time. We love the swinger cruises! As soon as we came home we signed up for our next one. It won't be until April 21 but this one is going to Jamaica. One of those places we've always wanted to go to.
Anyway... there were a few amazing experiences from the last cruise. Some great sex, some interesting seminars that we went to. But one of the things that still really sticks out in my mind for a number of reasons was the Bi Couples Meet and Greet.
We tried going to a few Meet and Greets on the first cruise and they didn't work out well for us. But we went to one seminar on our second cruise called Meet Great and Seal the Deal. It was really interesting to us. How to be better at going up to people and talking and chatting and getting to the point. A lot of it was pointing out that you have to be brave and go up to the people you're interested in and start talking to them. With that knowledge at hand we decided we would try to hit another Meet and Greet and see how it went for us.
Every day they would print out a schedule with all of the events. On one of the days we noticed that there was a Meet and Greet for Bi Couples. We decided we really wanted to check that one out. Maria is bi curious. I am more what I would call bi curious/orally bi. I'll admit that I've had a couple of guys suck my cock while we've played and I'll admit that in the heat of the moment I've sucked a few cocks while we've played. I would call myself orally bi. Maybe? Probably!
So we showed up to the Meet and Greet. Ready to actually talk to people. We walked in and right off the bat we recognized a couple who we had met at a dinner party the night before the cruise. It was sort of like, "Hey! What are you doing here! lol" In a funny way the ice was instantly broken for us. There were maybe about 20 or so couples there. We started going around and talking to everyone. We made an attempt to say hello to every single couple in the room. There was a really great vibe. It seemed like all of us were in on the secret if you know what I mean. There was a special connection between all of us. Everyone seemed super cool and nice. It actually felt a little empowering.
We talked for a long time to a transgender woman. She had taken a lot of shit on the cruise so far and she really enjoyed feeling like she was in a safe space. We talked with a gay guy who was just there to check it all out and was fascinated by the whole thing. We talked with a younger couple who were super cool. On the schedule it said that one of the orgy rooms would have a bi playtime when the Meet and Greet was over. We talked to a couple of couples who all agreed that we should go down to the orgy room and have a fun bi orgy. We were psyched! We thought that would be amazing and fun. Maria had gone to the Bi Lady Meet and Greet the day before and afterwords they had done the same thing. Turned over this particular orgy room for the ladies to play in. No men allowed. We had a nice little group of four couples ready to have some fun!
We all went down to the orgy room that was listed on the schedule as the place where the bi playtime was going to be. When we got there however the room was completely full of people having fun. We asked the folks who were in charge of the room what was going on? Were they going to clear out the room so the bi playtime could happen like what was on the schedule. They looked at us like we were crazy and said, "You don't expect us to tell all these people who are having fun to stop and leave do you? You guys can still play. Just go in and start having fun." But that was the problem. There is such a stigma in the swinging world about bi guys that we all knew that wasn't possible. We were going to start going in there and playing and having everyone around us freak out. The hosts clearly didn't get it.
We walked in the room and watched around for a bit. Another couple came up to us and started chatting. We mentioned to them that we weren't sure what was happening because the room was supposed to be for bi playtime. The dude in the couple looked at us with a look of disgust on his face and said, "That's crazy! There aren't any bi guys on this cruise. That's disgusting. That's not what swinging is about."
This was exactly what we were worried about. It was really disappointing on many levels. We went back out into the hallway and talked to our bi friends some more. We all agreed that it was a lost cause and decided we would try to meet up later in private. But we considered this a huge fail by the swinger cruise organizers.
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