Saturday, October 8, 2016

Party planning

So about five years ago we tried setting up a few hotel parties. We would rent a nice big hotel suite and get about 4 or 5 couples to join us for a small orgy. My memory was that one of them turned out fantastic then another didn't go so well. But we've been thinking it would be fun to set one up again.

We figured out a date that would work for us and reserved a hotel suite at a place we've been to many times. It's sort of a swingers mecca in the Chicago area. A lot of people have parties there because the rooms are really nicely laid out. A living room area in the middle with a kitchen off of it will a full fridge and stove and microwave. Then two bedrooms, each with a bathroom, off to each side. One with a king bed and the other with two twins. Perfect...

We started to contact all the couples we know. Right off the bat it seemed like a bunch of folks had conflicts or couldn't make it that weekend. We put up a hot date ad on SLS and got a few nice responses, and a few responses that we weren't interested in. We talked to some more friends and couples that we had played with before. We started to get some nice responses back. We soon had a nice little group with four couples and perhaps a single lady we knew. We thought that would be perfect! A nice little orgy.

Then one couple said they couldn't make it. We were still OK with that. Three couples and us would still be a lot of fun. Then with about a week and a half to go we got a message from another couple. They couldn't make it. Crap. They were also one of the couples we were really looking forward to seeing again. A couple that we really enjoy playing with. Sigh... now we were down to two couples and us. Which, to be honest, we thought would still be a lot of fun! I still had our hot date ad up as well. But we weren't getting any good responses.

Saturday was a week before the party. I thought I would send out a little "see you in a week!" message to the two couples that were still coming. I sent a text to one of the couples. I didn't expect to hear back from them since I knew they were on vacation. I got a note back from the other couple. They just found out that the lady half wouldn't be able to attend. He wanted to know if he could come on his own?

Nope. Sorry. Not what we were looking for. Furthermore. Crap. Really? All of a sudden we're down to just one other couple. We're wondering if we should just cancel the whole thing? We actually really want to meet this other couple though. They were the one couple that was coming that we haven't played with before. But now we feel sort of weird about it all. We were inviting them to this couples orgy party and now things just aren't working out.

I'm remembering now why we stopped doing this. It's a lot of work. But when the stars align and things work out these sorts of parties can be amazing. We'll see how it goes. We're still talking to a few people We still have our hot date ad up. Part of this is perhaps our own fault as well. We've gotten notes from a few couples that we weren't into for one reason or another. We can be picky. We would rather have a smaller party with just a few people that we're really attracted to.

So we'll see. Next Sat night was the night. We'll see what happens...

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